Showing posts with label hypnosis. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hypnosis. Show all posts

Monday, May 4, 2020

What is a Yes Set | NLP is Fun

If you are in sales you may have heard of a Yes set and you may not yet be sure what exactly that is.

Let's go through it shall we.
A Yes set will look and sound like this


So you made it then ?
Was it raining when you left?
Did you get my text this Morning?

Now that is three yes's
Isn't it, assuming the person said yes.

The way to get the yes is by asking questions you undeniably know the answer is going to be yes to.

Then you ask a real question you want a Yes answer to either directly or setting it up with a couple soft and cozy ones first.

Like this:

"So you are coming to football on Tuesday then "
They agree and say Yes.

Liverpool killed it against (whomever) did you see the match
2 more yes's

"You gonna bring your kit and play this time"
They agree and say yes.

Is Holly over yours ...Yep

Gonna sign up for team training ?
yeah might as well.

So now they have said yes to you about signing up for your course.

And the person unconsciously has been programmed to say yes.

It is not an exact science, so you need to calibrate your pace and lead ratio.
As always go with your instinct.

Now you have a go !
Remember you need loads of Rapport as that will make a big difference to the level of ease the person feels.

Saturday, May 2, 2020

Utilisation - Milton Erickson | NLP is Fun

Hello dear friends, oh how I have missed you.
Here is a small chunk 

Since you love to influence and persuade people with Language patterns, Hypnosis and Anchors, I will offer a new Hypnotic pattern for you to learn today.

Utilisation For Hypnosis:
Have you ever been performing Hypnosis and the door bell rings.
Or
The Clock Chimes
Or
And Ambulance sets off a loud Alarm.


In Hypnosis we utilize whatever is happening into the sensory awareness of our pre-talk and our Hypnotic induction.

In fact as you begin to do an induction you will bring attention outside and then inside like this.

"As you hear the quiet hum of the cooling fan you know all is well with the world and now you can easily relax".

"Every sound you hear will in fact lead you deeper into an unconscious state of comfort and ease .. Certainly".

And

Utilisation as a Language pattern:

Here is Utilisation is used as a Language pattern

"As you continue to increase your knowledge while reading NLP is Fun you increase your options in every area of your life."

"As you listen intently to the soft sound of my voice you may also notice how relaxed and soft your whole body is becoming."

"As you change your position to one of more comfort you will also notice how easy it is to change your mind."

"As you move your head to signal being ready suddenly things you had been waiting for suddenly appear out of thin air."

Isn't this fun.
Well let us see you write some out and practice them.

Sooner than later they will naturally show up in your conversation.

Remember,
Whatever shows up adapt it as a prop to help you achieve your goal.

As you really tap into your outcome the need to hammer it in becomes obsolete !!

Utilise it = Utilisation

Until the next one

Thursday, December 5, 2019

Tote Model of Strategies | NLP is Fun

When providing NLP Coaching and certainly in NLP Training  we are determined to create a check point to know if a strategy of any kind is working at it's highest functioning.


For this reason, every single time we do any pattern we will use the Tote Model of strategies.

The Tote Model is not exclusive to  Neuro linguistic programming as it was created by George Miller, Eugene Galanter and Karl Pibram for developing feedback loops to developed processes that were complete for operating and monitoring human systems for problem solving.


T.O.T.E stands for Test, Operate, Test, Exit.

1) Test where the system is currently
2) Operate a solution for Improvement and higher functioning.
3) Test how well the operation worked to overall functioning of the System.
A) If it provided the Desired Outcome Exit
B) If further resources are needed continue to Operate until an Exit point has been determined by the feedback loop.

4) Exit only when satisfied with the stability of achieving desired result.

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Monday, December 2, 2019

The Conscious Mind | NLP is Fun

In Neuro Linguistic programming we speak of The Conscious mind and the Unconscious mind, If you would like to learn about the unconscious mind then you can do so by clicking here   and also on this NLP is Fun post I wrote about programming your unconscious mind.

The Conscious Mind is about real time awareness it is a state of awareness that is about your focused attention, what you are focusing on at the moment.
And also this description is an example of what it could be and what we mean when we use it. We use it as a metaphor because it is a practical way to use language to describe an experience.


The Conscious mind would also represent chunking down into details like when we use the Meta Model for example, as opposed to the Milton Model which we use Chunking Up in ambiguity for the most part.

When we speak of The Conscious Mind we mean attention to Stimulus of what is happening inside (in detail) and Outside (In Detail).

You may have heard an NLP Practitioner say the Conscious mind is the gate keeper of the Mind, and that it does not have the capability to operate the full potential of the mind. Which means it is often attempting to dominate out of its scope of capability.

Worrying about the future is an example of this since the Future is not in a state of consciousness at present.
we can certainly image in e  what we believe to be a version of what could happen in the future and this will happen in the Unconscious mind. And if the conscious mind expects a bad result NOW it would draw comparisons from the unconscious mind of how bad it could be.

A transderivational search (for comparative meaning) Like in the Communication model.
Although to say this is true of accurate is left to interpretation. You can see how the conscious mind is great for an initiator of Hypnosis by now can you not ?

This is because the conscious mind can represent 7 plus or minus 2 pieces of information at a time and an example of  this could be a lighthouse that shines over the dark and cold water at night time the lighthouse sweeps light over small parts of the water periodically. It illuminates different area's one at a time. It does not have the scope to alight the whole Sea at once.

The bit that is illuminated is the bit you are aware of in the present. The rest of the sea still exists and it would be "in the Unconscious Mind" which is everything else.
even though it exists and you may or may not know it does, it is "out of consciousness" which can mean you are not aware of it in the present and any detail of it.

Some say The conscious mind is considered to be a messenger, you can use it to initiate Self hypnosis for example. It is most practical to instruct your conscious mind with a series of repetitious thoughts and behaviors so as to overload The critical faculty and spill into the Unconscious mind for Transformation.

Remember the conscious mind is a great helper when we become more mindful on what we love to experience. This will help to create more of these satisfying experiences by paying attention.

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Sunday, December 1, 2019

More about your Unconscious Mind | NLP is Fun

Neuro linguistic Programming is about making sure you have more options and choices available to you at any given time.
One of the most important presuppositions then is to understand our objective is to program the Unconscious mind to be even more effective for our desired outcome.

I have written about how to "Program your unconscious mind" here  in this post I will give a few tips about what your unconscious mind is busy doing.
If your Conscious mind is a wallet, your unconscious mind is your Luggage.

The unconscious mind has stored All experience. Including experience that has been experienced "Out of consciousness"
The Unconscious mind works well to help you, and is using previously programmed information. your most frequent filtering and beliefs.
in order to change a belief it must be reprogrammed in your unconscious mind.

As you may know all transformation is created by adjusting how you do your unconscious process and the goal is to overload the critical faculty and impress you unconscious mind with the new behavior.
Using NLP and Hypnosis for this is fast and thorough.




Of course bear in mind the Unconscious mind already is working and here is what the Unconscious mind is charge of:
Your Body Functioning, it is preserving your whole body functioning entirely. All of your Neurological process is unconscious.
You can also direct these processes by programming your unconscious mind to improve the way it is functioning.
An example of which is to relax and tell your breathing to slow down. Did you know that many mentalist's slow their heart rate down so that it practically stops but beats just enough to keep them alive.
And all Pain may be controlled by programming your unconscious mind.
Watch this Derren Brown clip from "Something Wicked This way comes"  

The Unconscious mind is in charge of your real Values carrying out, preserving and enforcing your Values, this is why some times a goal has not yet been achieved as there is an internal Values conflict. All new behavior must support your whole ecology and pass through your unconscious filters.

Your Emotional responses, your Brain chemistry how you are reacting according to your most used emotional responses another way of saying this is your moods.
Your Memories, Storing, repressing to protect you and representing memories in case you would like to deal with them.
Your real Preferences which means your real unconscious desires and not the ones you really don't like, (but want people to think you do like) and your filtered  perceptions.
Your Habitual behavior Patterns that you have done so much become second nature.
Your Beliefs that serve a higher purpose to your overall functioning.

Neuro linguistic programming is about improving your subjective reality which will improve your overall experience.

The best way to improve your experience is to practice using Neuro linguistic patterns that allow choice to become a normal part of your reality, and then choose a behavior that supports your outcome.

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Friday, January 4, 2019

2019 New Year and New You !

Happy New Year and Happy New You !
Here is to your most amazing year Ever
From me Nadia Harper to you

Filled with everything your heart desires and Oodles more.
May Your Self Image allow you to achieve every thing you love
May your unconscious mind be congruent in what you desire
May your internal dialogue reflect a high expectation for your Outcomes


Let us just decide right this minute This will be Our Best year Ever and so it is !!
Happy 2019
And most of all Thank you for sticking with me and my Little Blog NLP is Fun through all these years. I love you and I appreciate you completely
As you already know this year will be our absolute Best!


Let's go !!!

Tuesday, August 7, 2018

NLP is as Simple as this .. Mind over Matter | NLP is Fun

NLP is as simple as this



Use your Mind ...

Focus
Focus on what you want
Get clear about exactly what it is

Get specific and Associate to it 
Touch it
Feel it
See it
Experience it through regular visualization

Amplify your associations to make them even more life like
Build up your expectation, that you can have it for yourself
Double check your self image to see YOURSELF with it so much so that you can expect to have it in your hot hands.

Check your own self image in connection with this association 
Believe that you will get it by constantly clarifying and fully associating to an Amplified living image  of you with it.



Become certain about your success.
Create a propulsion system which is the equivalent of tipping the scales with your desire to outweigh the what ifs ..

Create a propulsion system
Desire must outweigh fear and anxiety of not getting or having it.

Associate to your desire, it must be:
White hot
Compelling
Congruent at every level


Be congruent 
Expect your unconscious mind to help you get it
Become certain only of your success.



Persist with all your might and get it

Thursday, May 19, 2016

Powerful Suggestions | NLP is Fun

Today I would like to speak about the importance of how you can use powerful suggestions for yourself and others while in Hypnosis.
I have drawn inspiration from Kirin webb 's Language pattern Bible which I highly recommend.

Kerin speaks about How Dick Sutphen uses "Power words" and Direct suggestions in his Hypnotherapy Audios.
I am a Fan of Dick Sutphen and had the chance to Interview him many years ago. He was made to be a Hypnotherapist with his easy and powerful Hypnotic intention and delivery.

I also use Power words in my own client work and it can be a super extension to maximize Affirmations while embedding them into the unconscious mind. The fact that you are delivering them in altered states is Everything. Well we already know the power of Hypnosis.

This changes your Neurology instantly and begins the deliberate process of shifting limitations in your old way of doing things.
Now you can get into the frequency of what you really want.
Tada ! What could be better, that is just Magic Dust, in my opinion.

Here is my own extended example of How you too can use them with other people.
Ready, say the Following:

1) You are Incredible
2) You feel Incredible
3) You notice Incredible things happening for you
4) You see yourself doing incredible things
5) You hear people saying how wonderfully incredible you really are
6) Say it in your mind now " I am incredible"
7) Say it again "I am Incredible"
8) Notice how your feelings change when you admit just how Incredible you are
9) Look for opportunities to prove you are incredible
10) Feel glad about the fact that you are incredible
11) Going forward whenever you say "I am incredible" in your mind or with your voice with the absolute intention of being incredible, your unconscious mind will realize this is your preferred channel and filter more and more incredible thoughts, people and situations for you to enjoy.
The more you do this the easier it will become and that in itself is absolutely Incredible. Isn't it.

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Thursday, August 13, 2015

What is your story | NLP is Fun

Today I was thinking about stories, for example The stories we tell ourselves, and  each other. In fact the Stories we live by.
Stories have so much go do with our experience our Past, Present and Future. If I was to ask you what is your story, would you tell me all of the things that are wrong with your life. Is this what you play over and over in your mind ?
Or would it be a happy ending, in fact a story of Victory and Triumph over extreme obstacles.

Would it be an inspiring story of strength, personal power and Determination against all odds ?
What is your story and what are you doing every single day to make sure you are the Victor and Role model of your own story ?
Perhaps you can begin to think of yourself differently even as somebody who always succeeds no matter what it seems like.
Use the Circle of excellence to remember what it feels like to become Victorious and Win.
Then just begin to Act as if and make it happen.
You can begin with a little Self Hypnosis to really program your mind for the better.

Boom. Let's Go !

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Thursday, March 5, 2015

Healing Hypnotic Meditation | NLP is Fun

Since it is Throwback Thursday I thought it would be fabulous to share this oldie and Goodie Healing Hypnotic Meditation from Pink Elephant TV.
The sound quality is a little lacking and yet still these powerful words and the energy ring through for all to enjoy.
I used to share much of this stuff on my other blog Pink Elephant tv  that also has close to 200 Fun and Informative posts available.

Check it out and experience a few moments of  soulful relaxation.


It is great to revisit this work I did in 2010, I have published a ton of content over these years which must be close to 1,000 Articles of Blogs, Training Material, Emails, You tube videos, Audio Recordings,Teleseminars, Workshops, Speeches, Book Contributions and more all together.

Since you are experiencing this informative NLP Blog you will love to read the Archives of NLP is Fun too. 

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

NLP Language Patterns | Non Sequitur Suggestions | NLP is Fun

Lets talk about NLP Language patterns today.
Quite frequently people speak in Non Sequiturs they begin with one statement and attach another seemingly irrelevant statement as a conclusion.

This can be quite confusing and distracting to listen to. It is usually used as a detour, a decoy, the person changes the subject by using this technique and your attention must shift when you allow it to go unquestioned.

Many of today's Reality TV shows are filled with people who use these as everyday language.


If any of you work with Coaching clients or in Management of people these non Sequiturs often shine a light on a Limitation and disconnect in a persons thinking. The person is not connected to their own accountability role, due to a deficit in belief of the available resources perhaps.

On the other hand, they are wonderful to use as a pattern interrupt and a confusion induction in persuasion, covert Hypnosis and Ericksonian Hypnosis.
So let us play with them a little, or a lot ..

Here is what they sound like:

1.You can Hear the Relaxing sound of my voice so you will go into Trance faster with grace and ease
2.Lots of people have had success with NLP and you can Visualize yourself at your Best now
3.Exercise is great for the mind because you begin to notice yourself being even more productive now
4.Practice makes perfect so you can notice becoming even more confident
5.Everyone likes chocolate and having a good night of sleep helps a person wake up early in the morning

Example One:
There are three parts to this sentence:
First part of sentence 1.
"You can Hear the Relaxing sound of my voice"

Then a bridge in the middle
Second part of sentence 1.
"So you will" 

The third part is a totally unrelated end statement
End part of sentence 1.
"Go into Trance faster with grace and ease"

Example Two:
First part of sentence 2
"Lots of people have had success with NLP"

Second part of sentence 2
 "and you can"

End part of sentence 2
"Visualize yourself at your Best now "

Ok, I wonder if you are getting the hang of it now because then you will become more flexible in your own communication.

Have fun practicing these Non Sequitur Suggestions

Tip:
The two statements do not need to have any relationship to each other
It implies that the end result is a conclusion of the first statement
It does not need to make sense
It bypasses the critical faculty
The person goes inside their head to search for understanding of your statement = Hypnosis
Think in terms of rhythm when putting them together.

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Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Entrancing Tales with the English sisters | NLP is Fun

Have you ever tried to learn and new language and found it overwhelming and given up ?
Meet The English Sisters.


All successful Trainers and Leaders know that Learning new things is always state dependent which means, if you feel great as you are learning, learning becomes easy and fun.

If you feel bad while you are learning, you will become reluctant to continue learning and you will loose confidence in your application ability.

If you want to learn something new the best way to do it is enjoy it, have small fun chunks and begin to reward yourself with successful application and practice.

If it is not fun and easy after time, many slowly let it slip through their fingers and practice less and less until they have come to a grinding halt.
What about you learning NLP what are you doing to make sure you are improving in this area ?

A learning strategy should become a regular habit as it then becomes quite unconscious behavior and bypasses the critical faculty that stands like a watch dog on all new processes.
Quite simply it becomes a part of you and how you do things without even thinking about it.

Here are two such ladies who have been very creative in their applications of Teaching English to Italian speaking language students. "The English sisters" Violeta and Jutka Zuggo use hypnotic language and NLP to teach English.

If you are interested in reading their clever English language book and finding out how they apply these techniques I highly recommend their book Don't Learn English smile  .
You can also use it to learn Italian too so give it a go.

I even got a mention in the book 
I am very pleased to be friends of yours for all of these years Violeta and Jutka Zuggo.
If you want to relax and enjoy more of the English sisters watch their video channel called HypnoRamblings . I will tell you they are pretty addictive once you watch one, you will be deliciously hooked on these beautiful and entertaining sisters.

They even have a book out called "Entrancing Tales for a change", which is about motivating change in people btw a great use of language in their title. I have a treasured hand signed copy.

Here is their Amazon page
Just love these Ladies, they have also written Beautiful Children's Book and how to get stress free in 3 minutes. They offer such a valuable contribution.

The Violeta and Jutka Zuggo of  (The  English sisters) are pioneers and have created their own category in everything they have gone after.

They have made their mark as Language teachers, Authors and now Luxury vintage lighting, you can go to their website here.

The English sisters are fabulous net workers and great Businesswomen to model. You can connect with them by liking them on Facebook and following their updates on Twitter.

What about you, what will you Pioneer,  what will you create ?
The English sisters have shown us, That flexibility and determination is key and whatever you do, be sure to  have some fun with it along the way.

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Thursday, May 26, 2011

Nadia Harper Interviews Doreen Cohanim C.Ht | NLP is Fun

Recently I met with Doreen Cohanim and Interviewed her about her practice, Doreen speaks about What happened with Dr Mehmet Oz and how she gets referrals from Paul McKenna .

Doreen Cohanim's Interview  is a True story of Grit, Determination and Focus.Please enjoy this Interview as you are inspired by this amazing Hypnotherapist.


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Friday, November 6, 2009

NLP Technique -"The Threshold Pattern"

Our Next Study Group will be a demonstration and Practice of the "Threshold Pattern".

I have chosen The Threshold Pattern as I feel it is a fitting pattern to close out the Year with.

This Pattern will apply to anyone who has reached a point of movement within themselves for wanting change to occur Now in their lives.

Toward the End of the Year is a Great time to reflect on all of your successes and accomplishments and the Goals that you have not yet accomplished.

"The Threshold Pattern" will help you to Take action and start to master your Mind. Overcoming the Fear that had held you back in the past and remembering all your memories of this habit - Pain - Fear from the past. Reliving in a fully associated state several different instances of when this has been an issue before.

The fact is, it easy to get stuck in a rut at times. These things happen little by little and there are many different reasons for us to unconsciously begin an undesirable habit, at the time we may feel there is a certain amount of "Payoff" that out weighs the inconvenience of the undesirable habit Traits.

As long as we are still compromising our Authentic values for the "Payoff" we will be in what we at times call a "Stuck State", yes we may feel frustrated .. although not enough to be successful with the Threshold pattern.

The Threshold pattern will be effective when we have decided the "payoff" is no longer appealing to us and we are congruent with that.

At this point our focus is now fully associated to the pain of the Experience and the undesirable habit or behavior.

Our Values now become important again and we are able to redefine our Value's and have clarity in our Desires.

We are able to reach a permanent paradigm shift to our association with the habit or behavior.

What makes the pattern so effective is the Repulsion and Disgust with the previous behavior that you are willing to face and connect with Now, and how many times and how vividly you are willing to connect with it.

If you are planning to do this by yourself get a feel of it first as it works really well when done quickly to engage the Unconscious Mind.

Think of 5 Times at least when you were Embarrassed Humiliated and generally felt awful about the Habit/Behavior.

Imagine a Grand Scale Movie Screen. Make yourself the starring role and relive the Embarrassment, Pain, Humiliation and awful feeling as you see and hear the habit or behavior in play. *** Amplify all Submodalities *** (Senses)

Repeat this for each time that you remember this habit or behavior in action at Least 5 and do it very quickly.

Now Replay all of it in one Massive big movie of you doing the behavior /habit and commit to fully feel the disgust and repulsion of your own Accountability in this habit/behavior and just notice how pathetic you participating in the whole habit/behavior really was at the time.

Now REPLAY THE MOVIE AND AMPLIFY SUBMODALITIES EVEN MORE.

Crank it up until you are so Physically disgusted that you know congruently that will never be your life again !

Future Pace and make sure you are sure you are over it if faced with the Option in the future.

If needed run as many times as necessary until you are thoroughly sick of the Idea of you doing the habit/behavior.

Do it until you get it .... Be Sure to RSVP Now  if you would like to join us.



Remember at the foundation of any habit or behavior that is not enhancing your life is an abundance of Fear.


Tuesday, October 27, 2009

NLP Technique "The Agreement Frame" | NLP is Fun

You would not keep throwing multiple Balls to your dog in the park if you only wanted him to fetch the first one … Would you?


The Agreement Frame this is very useful in conflict resolution of all kinds as well as Sales and Negotiation. While a very simple language pattern to use the effects are very powerful and turns a potential negative disagreement into a positive agreement (pacing) and then (Leading) adding your mutual highest intention to the close.

In Business as in Life conflict happens let us be honest. What I have noticed more and more is that people have a hard time getting their emotions together when they feel as if they are caught off guard.

In order to perfect this Language pattern then, there are many other components to consider.

Breathe
Firstly begin to slow things down inside you so that you can observe your own breath, which will give you enough time to get your emotions in check. Three deep breaths in and out very slowly will help.

Focus
Focus on the Result you want instead of looping the offending incident or the disagreement.
Great Communicators do not allow anyone to take them off track (no matter how persuasive they are).
The Goal is always to find new and creative ways to get back on track,
While you may be able to use what the person you are communicating with is saying to influence their behavior, remember a simple formula of pacing and leading.

Patience
Remember to begin the pattern again even when it appears not to be working, change context, change tonality, Pace Rhythm breathing and maintain a calm state that supports the person you are speaking with while waiting patiently for your outcome.
It can be as simple as repeating what you are saying in new and creative ways.

Calibrate
Of course it will also be necessary to use finely tuned Sensory Acuity to Pace and Lead, detect and calibrate throughout the Process.

And
Instead of using "But" (which negates the previous statement) use "And" which also keeps the communication moving forward.

Be Congruent
Open your statement with Matching Body language and Facial expressions..
You can say

“I agree and ...”
“I appreciate and..”

Notice how we are using "And" instead of But.

Refrain from using "I understand" as we are all operating from different "Maps of the world" and you quite likely do not exactly understand although you can agree or appreciate.

Win Win
Discover what the highest intention of the objection is and then continue to elicit the Value until you find a mutual value (something that you have in common).

Example:
(Without the Agreement Frame)

Sheila: "Can you come over tonight I need some help stripping the wallpaper in the living room so when Mum and Dad are here this weekend the room looks fresh".

Mike: "I've had an exhausting day and all I want to do is flop on my bed when I get home I'll come after work tomorrow".

Result: "Dead End" no foot in the door to resume conversation.

Here is what happens when you use The Agreement Frame:

Sheila: "Can you come over tonight, I need some help stripping the wallpaper in the living room so when Mum and Dad are here this weekend the room looks fresh".

Mike: "Sheila I agree, And we should freshen the room for Mum and Dad.
Tell you what, I've had an exhausting day and all I want to do is flop on my bed when I get home, if I crash this evening I will have all the more strength to finish the whole thing tomorrow night, How does that sound".


Review
Did you notice how he agreed in the beginning "I agree and" (pacing and maintaining Rapport) ... and at the end he communicated the mutual highest intention of getting it done for Mum and Dad in time and provided a solution. (Leading)

This is an Elegant Language Pattern with a win win solution which diffuses any risk of breaking rapport in communication.

Rapport
Remember and maintain Rapport
Pace and then Lead
Calibrate for the highest intention you both agree on

Wrap the frame around your answer - as shown.
Keep going in new and creative ways using this formula until you get the result you are looking for.
Everyone wins with this pattern.

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Thursday, October 22, 2009

Welcome to the New Blog




Welcome to "NLP is Fun" !

NLP is Fun was formed when I started my NLP Study Group "NLP is Fun in Las Vegas" 2 years ago.
Since then we have grown into a resource for NLP'ers world wide.

You will find Discussions - Posts - Opinions and reviews of NLP and Hypnosis related info here.

For more information on Nadia Harper please go to http://www.NisadaCoaching.com