Friday, September 30, 2016

Self Confidence as a Formula | NLP is Fun

Recently I spoke about Faith and "Think and grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill. The info graphic I shared was my adaptation as I translated it into strategies we can use in NLP and Self Hypnosis.

The post was about having Faith and gaining it through Auto suggestion. When we speak about Auto suggestion we are speaking about Mind programming (Self Hypnosis).

Remember there are many benefits to using Self Hypnosis find out more here  the focus is on repeatedly giving yourself suggestions of what you want. You can do this via an Audio, writing, or pictures.
Your objective is to bypass the critical faculty and convince the unconscious mind.
Here is the "Self Confidence formula" which I Mentioned in that Post.


You can follow this outline to the "T" as a cheat sheet to keep yourself on track. when you program your mind, a whole new range of possibilities show up.

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Thursday, September 22, 2016

How to develop Faith | NLP is Fun

I have written before about the NLP "Act as if"  Pattern here which is very helpful in rehearsing the idea of F.a.i.t.h :
Feel
As
If
You
Already
Have it.
This Info graphic is adapted from the "Self Confidence formula" described in the book Think and Grow Rich By Napoleon Hill.


Since I have been an NLP Mastermind Facilitator now for close to 4 years now.
Napoleon Hill speaks about the way to gain Faith through Auto suggestion which we call Self Hypnosis.
He speaks about suggestion and Mind power in programming the mind for success in order to get what you want.

In anyway of affirmation. The point is being relentless in persuading yourself it will happen.

To have confidence in oneself and ones contributions is essential. To believe that what you want and cannot see yet will materialize outside of your mind too.
In the Self love process I refer to it as "Standing with your self" If you have asked for it or put a project forward, then build up belief to impress on the unconscious mind that you are serious about it.

In other words have Faith, it will work out exactly how you want it to be.
Do you remember NLP Well formed outcomes you can read about it here  and if you want a relaxing strategy to get clearer using self hypnosis then set some time aside for 10 steps to congruent Goal achieving.

The clearer you get with your intentions, the more the unconscious mind will know exactly what you mean. And the more associated you will become to your outcomes.

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Wednesday, September 21, 2016

Consistency is Key | NLP is Fun

If you are determined to achieve anything then one of the things you will learn very early on is the value of consistency.
It is easy to be consistent when you feel like it, but since we are "Bundles of conditioned responses " you may not always feel like it.


Get into the habit of saying words that inspire you, and decide to stay focused and motivated. When you set an intention to succeed in any given area also factor in to it how you will keep yourself on track.

One of the things to consider is every action causes a reaction. As long as we are not maintaining our state we are at the mercy of our environment and those who influence us on a daily basis.
This can be Family members, our partner, people we work with and anybody who we interact with. Not only that it can be News, Work, Church or anything that suddenly changes our mood.

If we are to consider things from an esoteric vantage point. All is information and Light.
All Information can enlighten us, or lead us into darkness.

Gold Dust 
I call this Christmas Tree which is an upward spiral of amplified feel great this is gold dust you can create magic within this powerful state.
Or a Downward spiral which is all of your personal power very quickly going down the drain.

To become mindful of your state, then is essential.
Decide to monitor your own moods for your own feedback as to how you are doing, also another thing that is essential is to do so without judgment.

I said in many blogs before Criticism and judgment are two sides of one coin. In other words if you do one you will also do the other. to others and also to yourself.
Criticism and Judgment both lead to a downward spiral.

The Alternative is always love, The Self love process reminds you to:



1. Think loving thoughts
2. Accept yourself fully
3. Stand with yourself
4. Be Kind with yourself
5. Take loving actions
The self love process can and will be expanded into how you engage with anyone too once you are used to thinking this way.

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Thursday, September 8, 2016

10 Easy NLP Communication Tips | NLP is Fun

Did you know, one of the NLP presuppositions is "The meaning of your communication, is the response you are getting"
In other words how your communications lands, is the impact of your Communication,
Remember,  a great rule of thumb is:
Does it feel good or bad ?
There is a great chance that, if you feel bad when you communicated it, it will feel bad when being received.


Sometimes in a misunderstanding, the person who communicated did not mean to offend another person.
However, the person can still get offended. The person can experience the offence and still choose how to respond.
The action following the impact is in the hands of the receiver.
The receiver can always choose how they respond to any offence.

The transmitter can adjust their message.

In the end good emotional self management is essential to all parties.
The less a person can manage their emotions the more often they will find themselves being offensive and offended.

In communication, so many factors are present, so here are 10 easy NLP Communication Tips that work every single time:

1) Become even more mindful of your own intentions and clearly understand what you mean before you even start.

2) Calibrate the feedback you get from the persons response, begin to notice everything
a) What can you see
b) What can you hear
c) How does it feel

3) Always decide to take the higher ground, getting the communication back into the "feel good" zone

4) Be flexible and focused on your original outcome and intention always
5) Observe any triggering effects present in your own responses
6 ) Decide to become less reactive and more proactive in all communication
7) Use Breath to centre yourself at all times
8) Believe you are capable, of getting things back on track
9) See yourself as powerful, visualize the resolution
10) Hear yourself sounding at your best and others responding well to you.

If you spend a few moments practicing this each time, it will become an unconscious process for you.
I must say, the dividends are endless, starting with you feeling better.

Richard Bandler used to say "How much pleasure can you stand" ?
I think that is the real question. don't you ?


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