Wednesday, November 28, 2018

Happy Thanks giving | NLP is Fun |

Happy Thanks giving, albeit belated.


The week before Thanks giving, i was thinking about the Salutation:
Happy
Thanks
Giving
In great detail actually.
It impressed me as a super Hypnotic suggestion.

Happy = experience happiness
Thanks = be grateful
Giving = share what you have to offer
When i think of this i can focus on Thanksgiving with a solid intention.
An intention to provide service happily.

This Thanksgiving i was determined to do just that.
The beauty of it is that with this attitude magic happened and i probably had one of my best Thanksgivings.

There is something quiet humbling in this for me.

How about you, what would you like to share about your own experience.



Sunday, August 12, 2018

NLP | The Excuse Blow out Pattern | NLP

The Excuse Blow out Pattern is credited to Michael L. Hall
This NLP Pattern is a refreshing thing to do while you are relaxing this weekend.
If you think having a Parrot land on your head and get tangled in your hair is fun, think again.
But any way back to this pattern.
The NLP Excuse Blow out Pattern.


You can use NLP to challenge yourself and find out what you are making excuses about and why you are making excuses.

If you want to find out more about your internal processes then let us get started.

Ready, let us go !

Step one:
What exactly is the Excuse (otherwise known as reason) you have not achieved your real goal.
a) What is the behavior and pattern of behavior
b) How is the behavior operated
c) Include all sensory findings V.A.K.O.G

Step Two:
a) How do you feel about this Excuse reason now after doing step one thoroughly.
b) What unconscious findings, have you now discovered
c) What is the highest intention for this behavior

Step Three:
a) Consider the value of the highest intention of this pattern.
b) Dismantle the intention and result of what your highest intention is and redesign it to be more favorable for you.
c) Enjoy the benefits and drop the behaviors previously surrounding the hidden intentions

Step Four:
a) Decide with all certainty to Completely drop the old behavior.
b) See a Visual stop sign
c) Shout Hell no in your loudest internal or external voice
d) Feel the impact of drawing a thick black line in the ground and amplify this.

Step Five:
Test Operate and also notice how much progress you have made ahead of time and notice how else you will now improve here.

Step Six:
Future Pace remember to amplify the VAKOG associations.

*Bonus
Consider designing a swish "Switch" into your new strategy build as you do this pattern.
Most of all, have fun with it.

Friday, August 10, 2018

NLP | A Simple Motivation Pattern | NLP is Fun

Do you want to experience more Motivation?
Using NLP to enhance your motivation is super easy.


It is actually about amplifying your associations to your outcome, I know it sounds simplistic and it truly is.

When you discover things that make you feel great, you feel great and Guess what, you are allowed to be happy and feel great.

Hey we are human and I am sure we all can do with a Jump start at times.
I used to have a call in line for Monday morning motivation, that is how important I think Motivation is.
Perhaps you were on it at some stage, or maybe you have heard a recording from it.


But the truth is, we have to be able to count on ourselves for motivation.
In the best of times and the worst of times.

In this exercise, I will teach you a Simple NLP Motivation Pattern you can do all by yourself.

1) Imagine a scenario you want to happen and it really happens.
a) engage all sensory experience V.A.K.O.G
b) amplify all submodalities  make it bigger / add more colors
c) Play with all internal representations to increase impact

2) Enhance and anchor the state as a pleasure motivation
a) Remember to anchor on the way up start at the beginning of the peak
b) Make your anchor as unique as possible
c) slide - Chain and create anchors that you like

3) Future Pace 
a) Imagine using at a later date
b) Fire your anchors

4) Test
a) Use your Anchor frequently
b) get into the state of achievement more and more 




Thursday, August 9, 2018

NLP | It is all about the Patterns | NLP is fun

Neuro Linguistic Programming is all about the patterns.
The pattern of behavior that we can call a strategy.

Each Pattern serves an unconscious purpose.
Some patterns work well to get what you want
Some patterns work well to stop you from getting what you want
Some Patterns work well to improve your life
Some patterns work well to destroy your life

It is easier to notice other peoples behavior 
We normally are aware of what others do right or wrong.
Frequently we choice to focus on what they do right or wrong depending on our own Metaprogrammes which are filters we use based on our own expectations.
Our own internal codes of consciousness, if you like.


Make a decision to explore your own patterns of behavior 
We can begin to notice our own patterns.
The things that:
Work for us
Trigger us
and cause our internal Maps and consciousness to change.

It is easier to notice patterns without getting caught up in the reasons for them
Neuro linguistic programming is about how we code our experience, and this causes our consciousness to evolve.
One way or another.

In order to effect positive change drop all judgement, focus on the desired state instead

Also some people believe
They are at Effect, in fact  Powerful NLP'ers believe they are "at effect".

Cause and Effect
When you live "at Cause" -- Life happens to you, and you say you have little control of your circumstances.

When you live "at Effect", you believe you are the driver and capable of transforming any of your circumstances.
You can decide right now, not to allow your circumstances to Hypnotize you into living "at effect".

Real eyes .....
I did not say it would be easy because it is not easy until it is.


Make it Easy now 
Did you know, when you say "This is easy", you unconscious mind learns to respond as if it is easy.
Magic doors suddenly appear out of thin air and open for you.

Interesting isn't it.
You and when I say you, I mean your mind, is capable of so much more than any of us know.

Begin to notice yourself changing your Internal coding by using your senses
Visual
Auditory
Kinesthetic
Olfactory / Gustatory to focus on things that excite and delight you.

You can change your own internal coding too 
You can do it right now or just as soon as you like.
You are in charge, of your internal representations.





Tuesday, August 7, 2018

NLP is as Simple as this .. Mind over Matter | NLP is Fun

NLP is as simple as this



Use your Mind ...

Focus
Focus on what you want
Get clear about exactly what it is

Get specific and Associate to it 
Touch it
Feel it
See it
Experience it through regular visualization

Amplify your associations to make them even more life like
Build up your expectation, that you can have it for yourself
Double check your self image to see YOURSELF with it so much so that you can expect to have it in your hot hands.

Check your own self image in connection with this association 
Believe that you will get it by constantly clarifying and fully associating to an Amplified living image  of you with it.



Become certain about your success.
Create a propulsion system which is the equivalent of tipping the scales with your desire to outweigh the what ifs ..

Create a propulsion system
Desire must outweigh fear and anxiety of not getting or having it.

Associate to your desire, it must be:
White hot
Compelling
Congruent at every level


Be congruent 
Expect your unconscious mind to help you get it
Become certain only of your success.



Persist with all your might and get it

Saturday, July 7, 2018

NLP | How to Improve your calibration skills | NLP is Fun

You can improve your NLP Calibration skills right now, even if you believe you are rubbish at it so far.
I know you have heard a about  NLP Sensory acuity and  NLP Calibration.
Now let us go in a little deeper.

When you experience your NLP Practitioners training you learn the importance of Calibration for building Rapport, and for effectively using NLP full stop.

We improve our calibration not just at NLP Practitioners training but constantly.
The better we are at calibrating in NLP, actually the more flexible we can be and the more we can understand a persons Model of the world and how they are processing.

One of my greatest hero's Bob Marley said among other great things:
"Every action causes a reaction .... "


Honorable Robert Nesta Marley 
Now to calibrate also can mean to negotiate ....
Further
Even at a stand still

In fact to Calibrate means to understand the unconscious non Verbal signals.
The out of conscious truth.
All NLP is based on unconscious processing.

You may be able to know what the Transmitter transmits before the Transmitter consciously knows he/she is transmitting such evidence.

This is the beauty of NLP and they may say to you "How did you know this, are you a mind reader ?"
Interesting isn't it.
Also 

To be a great communicator can make you a person who thinks differently, staying in the game longer and pays more attention to the other stuff...
This actually is certain as long as you are improving with Neuro linguistic programming.

Like .... The stuff the transmitter is actually communicating unconsciously.

Now, 
To observe these transmissions is the beginning.
You have yet to understand what the transmitter can mean by them within this particular context.
However, honestly you now just have a starting point.
Although, you my be piecing it together.

Remember, as an NLP'er we are looking for any thing different, This means:
It feels different 
It Looks different 
It sounds different  
It smells different 
It tastes different 

The combination of any of these things are clues,
The more you know how to calibrate the easier it will be to solve the puzzle.

You can learn how to understand a persons sequences and this is the goal of calibration.
In NLP this will be their processing strategy.
It is a recipe,
If you observe the person under stress, this is a clue to pay more attention to their behaviour now.

What you hear and see may not match what your unconscious intuition is telling you. This is important to know for a few reasons:

 You may miss the turning point of any situation leading you to fail to resolve a thing or worse.
A) with a coaching client
b) Family member
c) Loved one
d) New Job
e) More money or an extended offer

In other words always look for the opportunities.
As with anything, practice makes perfect.

Remember we are looking for any glimmer of a shift in state.

Some traditional NLP areas are

Colour change
Micro expressions
Breathing changes
Posture Change 
Sudden movements anywhere
Eye changes
Flaring of nostrils
Tonality shifts 
Different eye accessing cues   
This is not all please note ALL Subtle state shifts.

Most of all real eyes learning NLP is an ongoing unconscious awareness that will become natural to maybe in the begiing and certainly in the end.
So please refrain from overwhelming yourself and remember to chunk down.
You have got to Relax ...
Learning is easier when you are more relaxed 
And also
You can focus on a certain area if you like.

Btw did you know, many people miss loud body language signals and only listen to the words.
They may even argue against unconscious signal being real.
This makes me giggle, every time.
Especially if they are firing off loads of theirs while explaining their delusions.

Remember what Bob said 
Every action causes a reaction.
Well begin to notice your own reactions.
Are you easily triggered .... ?
What about if People don't believe in NLP 

When I first started I must admit I wanted everyone to learn it.
I still do, although I do not get upset any more if people do not follow through after knowing the value of NLP.

As my grandmother used to say "It will all end in tears you know"
She felt as if practically everything was going to end in tears so no real Biggie ..

BUT!
Notice what you notice and trust yourself.
Have fun with it. 



Sunday, July 1, 2018

NLP | The Mother of all NLP | NLP is fun

The Mother of all NLP Patterns is a pattern that is a foundation in all NLP Change work.
Because of this we can call it a Meta Pattern.

It is a very simple pattern structure and credit goes to John overdurf and Julie Silverthorn
The pattern in my opinion begins with it's title, how hypnotic is this The Mother of all NLP ..
What does this generalization presuppose for you ?

Ok here are the componants.

1) Represent the present state:
What is the fully associated present state

2) Representation of the desired state
Fully associate using full V.A.K.O.G

3) Identify the resources

Now let us try it on, you can follow along if you like.

1) What is the problem - describe it, see it, feel it.
Fully associate

2) Break state - shift focus radically
Neutralize the association
Bring the person into the now / out of the past effect of the problem
Shift state to a more appealing now

3) Create and design a more wellformed outcome
Help them walk this through and associate to it fully V.A.K.O.G

4) Identify the Resources needed and apply them

5) Amplify the associations to the resources, connecting resources to the original problem creating the result.

Future pace T.O.T.E

Remember your Resource, Resource anchor must create a powerful propulsion system that collapses the original anchor.