Thursday, July 23, 2020

NLP Milton Model Presuppositions | NLP is Fun

Hello, today on this NLP is Fun I will cover NLP Milton Model Presuppositions.
A Milton Model Presupposition in Neuro linguistic programming is defined as 
"something which has not been stated, but is assumed to be included for the whole statement to be understood properly".

1. Subordinate clauses of time
Before, After, During, As, Since, Prior, When, While .... etc

  • Before you  completely relax, remember to close your eyes and take a deep breath ..
  • After you have enjoyed the full effects of this session you will notice this problem has become a thing of the past.
  • During Trance you know the feeling of comfort will increase probably before you have even noticed 

2. Ordinal Numerals
Another, First, Second, Third etc ...

  • Another 10 minutes will make all the difference to perfecting this steak
  • First, Sit comfortably inside the Trance Chair and then allow the magic to happen
  • Second, now that you have decided to completely relax just enjoy the sensation.

3. Use of Or 
  • The Word "Or" between the given choices
  • Do you prefer your Chocolate drink Cold or Hot
  • Will you design the patio later today or tomorrow
  • Does going in a trance now or going all the way down later interest you the most  

4. Awareness predicates
Know, Aware, Realize, notice ... etc

  • You may know more about solving this problem than you once felt
  • You might be aware  that everything is now changing
  • Do you realize going in to a trance even now is simpler than ever, relax

5. Adverbs & Adjectives 
Deeply, Easily, curious, about ... etc 

  • A person can even go deeply in to trance without even knowing how their unconscious mind works
  • There is not need to struggle to go into trance instead you may experience it easily now
  • I know you are curious about going in to Trance aren't you 
6. Change of time Verbs and Adverbs 
Begin, End, Stop, Start, Continue, Proceed .. etc

  • As soon as you begin to notice you are relaxing you will be enjoying the sensation of a light trance
  • In the end the result is even more important than the process, isn't it
  • You can stop enjoying the healing effect of trance at any time, you know

7. Commentary Adjectives & Adverbs 
Fortunately, Luckily, Happily ... etc

  • Fortunately, you know how you can relax all by your self
  • Luckily for you are a great trance subject, and you flop straight in to trance
  • Isn't it nice to see how Happily you make the best choice for yourself

I hope this was as much fun for you, as it was for me. Let me know how easily you use this and how quickly your results improve now.

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Wednesday, July 22, 2020

Language Matters - NLP is Fun

Language Matters doesn't it, some people say that Words are just words, those of us whom use words on purpose know the power of words don't we.

As Occultists, Philosophers and Psychologists know Words have magical Effects.
Richard Bandler  - Guide to Transformation page 31 

Words have enormous Power and speak directly to a persons Unconscious mind. If this were not so advertisers and sales people alike would not spend so much time on writing the "Copy".

Words trigger responses in other people, words are hypnotic,  words are influential, words are suggestions.

Your words can create an unintentional meaning in other people, perhaps you did not even mean to, in this Chaos culture of 2020 please think before you speak.

Many of you know I am a LOUD advocate for the Civil rights of Black people world wide.
Of course personally it means something to me, that it may not mean to you.

With that being said, it can mean something to you if you care.
An example of this is, those of you know I love Dogs and Animals. I spoke out quite a bit when people used to say nasty things about Pit bulls and tried to generalize about their behavior.
I care about the treatment of Dogs passionately although I am not a dog.

In this Blog post I would like you to consider that words matter, we could argue about the meaning of words blah blah blah.

I am going to be transparent with you.
Any one of us can find a word that insults another person, this is why words matter.
If you care about becoming an excellent communicator that is not an ***hole.

Think before you speak !
Calibrate the meaning of your communication.

Real eyes words can be substituted for words that  work better within a certain context. you loose nothing, in fact you exercise your skill in being mindfully creative and flexible.

If you put your foot down against it, well in my mind you are on the wrong side of an argument.
Change your words to be empathetic to a persons experience.

Treat people with the dignity and respect any one of us desires.
I love you, all of you. Blessings.

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Monday, June 22, 2020

NLP Milton Model | Indirect Patterns of Elicitation | NLP is Fun

Do you like Ericksonian Hypnosis, if you love Neuro Linguistic Programming you would love these Indirect Elicitation patterns which come from the Milton Model. which of course is the Language Modeled by Richard Bandler and John Grinder on Milton Erickson

Here are Milton Ericksons Indirect elicitation patterns 
Using them will get a response that is extremely specific even though it is requested in an indirect way.

Embedded Commands
Softeners on either side and the Command Embedded in to the middle. I have written about this extensively here 
"Perhaps you already know that you will decide to go, in the end"

Analogue Marking 
Set the Command apart by using some type of Marker you are "Marking" out an action that needs to be taken either by changing your voice tonality in some way or using a tool to touch as you speak of this action each time.
"You may realize that Everyone loves being Hypnotized in one way or another" 

Embedded Questions 
And Embedded Question is a Question that is hidden within a larger statement.  
"I am wondering if you would like to be hypnotized again when we next do it" 

Negative Commands
Put the Negative first and act as if you do not want what you want.
"I don't know if you like this style of language pattern or not" 

Conversational Postulates 
If I say this, you could say yes or no but what I really like about it, is that you take instant action instead.
"Could you shut the door" 

"So as you go inside, wherever you go when you get in there I often wonder where you go inside, you know how far can you go, and what I want you to do is remember ."

Richard Bandler

Remember these incredible hypnotic patterns begin the process of change and transformation as the person has to go inside to discover all of their answers.These are suggestions within suggestions that work wonderfully, can you imagine how well they will work for you to now ? 

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Thursday, June 18, 2020

Milton Model Presupposition | " You might become Aware" | NLP is Fun

You might become Aware is a Milton Model Presupposition simply becoming aware is noticing what is already there isn't it.

All you have to do is Notice and when you do you will be plugged in to noticing it and that is a great feeling isn't it.
Who wouldn't choose this.
This brings all of your attention exactly where it is practical and focused on your outcome, the outcome you would really like don't you.
That Trancy feeling of going inside yourself to that harmonious place of possibility and focusing on what you like even more.

Have you noticed what happens first as you become more aware of where your attention is going ?
Perhaps you would like to spend even more time focusing on the things that you like and feel great to you .. it is just a thought.

The Pattern is:

"You might become Aware of _________ when you _________ "

You might become aware of your knowledge expanding easier than before as you read NLP is Fun can you notice the fun feeling of learning more Neuro Linguistic programming now ?

Would you like to have fun with this pattern you might notice this is easier than you think when you use it.

"Now what I would like to do is something simple, and what I would like you to do is to start now, because you see, one of the things about hypnosis is its purely a subjective experience and if you are going to have a subjective experience, you really should do it yourself."

Richard Bandler 

Wednesday, June 17, 2020

Conversational Hypnosis | Stacking Realities | NLP is Fun

In Neuro Linguistic programming our focus is on creating Transformations always and in all ways NLP Language patterns are a great way to use conversational change that will work in every area of Hypnotic language to create a massive change.
"Stacking Realities" is a process that embeds one story inside another. it can be a little bit confusing as well as relaxing to experience.
Follow along with this simple and yet highly Influential Language pattern.

How to Stack Realities - Conversational Hypnosis 

1. Decide on the intended outcome first think of it as a Theme that unconsciously threads your stories together and make sure it meets all well formed conditions.

2. Put together quite a few bite sized story pieces and make sure they all can lead one into another perhaps using the Milton model "Quotes" pattern although you decide what will work best for you.
I had a client once  a little bit like you as it happens ..... who wanted to .... which had been causing her an enormous amount of worry ... until one day when she met a nice young man at the Bike shop and he said "well you could worry all day and night but will that change it" My father always would say "If you don't like it. fix it" and she realized after a spell all her attention had been going on what she didn't want, and said wow I really  value the process of living in the moment and just being present ....

3. When using quotes take the opportunity to embed a process into the quote
 " Milton Erickson would always utilize what was happening at the time to his own advantage" I heard Richard Bandler say "Think of a Challenge as an opportunity"

4. Test this simple and effective strategy out with a partner and get creative with it.

"Before you learn to give people the right suggestions you must know how to ask the right questions, and the right questions are those that tell you how the problem functions, rather than why the person or his or her therapist believes it occurred"

Richard Bandler 

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Tuesday, June 16, 2020

NLP Pattern Visual Squash | NLP is Fun

Neuro linguistic programmers use a pattern called Visual squash which is an NLP Pattern that is easy and fast to over come inner conflict, indecision and unconscious turmoil.
This Exercise is used in Neuro linguistic programming to experience real wholeness for the purpose of well being.

Remember if the unconscious and conscious mind are in conflict the desired state will not happen and the new behavior will not shift into high gear. this feels bad too and can cause other behavioral problems.

Here are a couple of examples of when to use Visual Squash:
You want to loose weight but eat cake all the time and have no willpower
You want to drop your mean friend but find yourself spending more time together
You say you care about doing something different but always do the same thing

Inner conflict feels bad and in the end the person will feel bad about themselves and their behavior.

How to do Visual Squash and resolve internal conflict

1) Identify the area of conflict and make a mental image of each, fully associating in Visual Auditory Kinesthetic Olfactory Gustatory use your hands and put one part in each hand.

2) Learn and Understand the possible highest intention of each part and name them for yourself visualizing each one and feel the weight of each one, is one heavier than another ?

3) Share the positive resources between each of the parts and develop an Image of the integrated shared resources now Visualize it and pay attention to this being a positive feeling.

4) Turn the parts to face each other while focusing on the Third image of the highest intention and positive feeling  and squash all parts into this it is fun to make a sound (like squishing or slapping) when your hands merge together and experience the changes from Problem state into Desired State.

5) Experience the powerful positive energy of the new integration, by bringing your hands to your heart and experiencing your whole wholeness for as long as you like.

6) Pick any situation in the future to future pace your experience of wholeness in a place that in the past may have been in congruent.

A mother brought her son to Mahatma Ghandi. she begged " Please Mahatma tell my son to stop eating sugar"Ghandi paused and then said "Bring your son back in two weeks" Puzzled the woman thanked him and said she would do as he asked.Two weeks later, she returned with her son . Ghandi looked the youngster in the eye and said, "Stop eating sugar" Grateful but bewildered, the woman asked "Why did you have me come back in two weeks to just tell him that, I am sure you could have told him that the first day ?"
Ghandi said "Two weeks ago I was also eating sugar" 

This excerpt was Taken from Maps, Models and the structure of Reality by Kim Kostere and Linda Malatesta
Reference Millman, 1980, 1984 P. 135

Thank you for stopping by and If you enjoy reading this article then please share and I look forward to learning how this powerful NLP pattern resolved internal conflict for you.
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Monday, June 15, 2020

7 Habits of a highly Effective NLP Coach | NLP is Fun

If you know about Neuro Linguistic Programming you will know That NLP can be used extremely well for Coaching and Learning, as well as learning how to Model a new behavior.
In many ways NLP Coaching is a highly effective alternative to traditional therapies.
Because of the components emphatically used.

Neuro = Using sensory awareness predicates = to identify and transform experience
Linquistic = Using Language to Identify an Transform patterns
Programming = Rewiring patterns that do not currently work and installing patterns that work highly effectively.

Perhaps you would like to become an NLP Coach or receive NLP Coaching or Training, here are some of the points to consider when choosing a Neuro linguistic programming Coach.

Here are 7 Habits of a highly Effective NLP Coach 

1. We are Proactive and creative with the focus on outcomes more than being formal in our approach.

2. Our Sensory awareness is highly developed and we respond to our client in the present rather that creating a strategy of what could or should be done.

3. We demonstrate creative flexibility, adapting and using different approaches that work and teach our clients to use the same approach in their own behavior.

4. We share an unspoken belief that the structure of a clients problem is more important for creating a change than the content of the clients problem.

5. We see every problem as a challenge and an opportunity to learn something

6. We regard the clients circumstance as an attempt to deal with a problem, rather that seeing them as "broken" or "Stuck"

7. We have certain unconscious, intuitive skills and behavior patterns in common.

"Build powerful hope for People, build it not so much from understandings. Build hope from an experience. Create this experience, reality is built from ideas. Create this experience repeatedly. Most of the time, most people have that backwards."

Richard Bandler