Tuesday, May 26, 2015

How to Elicit Desired States | NLP is Fun

When eliciting  any desired states you can follow this formula to make sure you have created a change that is lasting at the Deep Structure.

Lets Get Cracking this is going to be quite detailed so you may like to get into a quiet corner and take some notes with a pen and a piece of paper.
If you are ready we will get started.

1. Must be Stated in the Positive.
What exactly would you like ?
Where will this happen ?
Who will be around, too ?
When will this happen ?

2. Must be initiated and also Maintained Independently by the Person who wants the outcome.
Do you need additional resources?
Does this fit your complete ecology?
Are you congruent about this?
Do all of your parts agree?

3. Sensory Evidence is Essential to defining this outcome.
How will you know you have achieved this?
Use full V.A.K.O.G. Sensory experience see link for a detailed description on NLP Representation processing styles..
Visual = What will you see?
Auditory = What will you hear?
Kinesthetic = What will you Feel?
Olfactory = What will you smell?
Gustatory = What will you taste?
As you go along, so that you know you are on the right track and, When you have achieved your outcome.

4. Use Cartesian Coordinates 
See Link for a Detailed Explanation of NLP Cartesian Coordinates

5. Is there a benefit to having or even keeping the problem?
Do a full investigation of any secondary gain to doing the behavior.
Bonus questions:
How do you know the new Outcome is going to be worth it?
When where and with whom does NOT HAVING IT work for you ?

6. Investigate the Full Ecology of the end result
How will this effect:
Relationships
The whole system of how this person functions
Living situations
Finances
Loved ones
Expectations
Greater Goals and Values
Arrangements
Career
Etc ...

7. Will there be anything different about your life when you have the outcome ?
What exactly will be the Impact of this benefit
Go Meta into detail of the Impact of the Benefit and even the loss of the current situation

8. Are you fully congruent and ready to experience this outcome now? 
Yes
No

9. Future pace
 Use mental drills checking for V.A.K.O.G and spatial submodality cues and shifts.

10. Additional Bonus: 
If you want further clarity you can go through the whole process of 10 steps to congruent Goal achieving to help you get really clear with your desires and then treat yourself to learning more about Well formed outcomes  when you do this you will have secure the outcome that you really want, right up front.

The Questions to Elicit the Present State:
What is the Problem?
How do you know it is a Problem?
How do you do this behavior, How do you know how to have it?
How do you know when to have it, do the behavior ?
How do you know who you should have the problem with ?
How do you know where you should have the Problem?
What stops you from changing the problem ?

How serious are you about Learning NLP and becoming excellent at using it each and every day, what are you doing regularly to improve ?

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Monday, May 25, 2015

All Sales Begin and end in your own Mind | NLP is Fun

Selling is a Mindset and it is something that any of us who want to achieve progress must do.
You can be selling:
An actual Product
A service
A piece of change as in change work
A persuasive argument
An Idea to a class, your child, Your partner, Your friend

But one thing is a constant.
It is not until you have
1. Identified your outcome in detail
2. Bought it yourself in full congruence
That you will be successful in achieving your outcome.
In other words, think of it like this.
All Sales Begin and end in how you program your own mind for your success.
With this being said, if you want "Yes Tickets" of any kind, in any form. You must become the master of your own mind.
Your unconscious processes are predicting your behavior and of course your results. NLP is about restructuring your unconscious processes to work on your behalf.

Program your mind then just as a Mind builder would. Be relentless in giving yourself the NLP advantage in resilience and Self mastery.
When you want to sell anything you must have already been well rehearsed in your NLP mental drills. This affects your unconscious processes as you have trained your mind to act in your favor.

This is why learning self hypnosis and NLP are so valuable. Yes it is true that you will be able to influence other people and more importantly you will be able to influence yourself into high gear and tenacious action first.

How serious are you about Training your mind for Peak conditioning and what are you doing regularly to improve ?

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Saturday, May 23, 2015

The Top 10 Skills of Excellent Communicators | NLP is Fun

Excellent communication skills are essential in today's society, in fact the better you are at Communication the better your quality of life will be.
NLP is the most exceptional tool for advanced communication. Every thing about Neuro linguistic programming is designed to improve the way in which we communicate with ourselves and each other.

When Richard Bandler and John Grinder Modeled the best communicators at the beginning stages of designing NLP they found the following qualities in each of them.

See No Evil |Hear No Evil |Speak no Evil .. unless of course, it is part of your Communication Strategy and is the best way to build Rapport with whomever you are speaking with. Speaking their language always and in all ways.

1, One must be absolutely clear with the outcome and stay focused on it, improving along the way as sensory acuity dictates.

2, The person with the most incredible flexibility wins and can stay in the game the longest, adapting as necessary.

3. The advanced communicator is well managed and is in control of their responses and reactions, knowing how to reset their emotions to neutral states quickly even if caught off guard.

4. They understand the essential importance of Rapport.

5. They control the frame, they design the states in other people to move in the direction of the desired outcome.

6. They stay focused and are disciplined in their processes, even if it does not seem so.

7. They view a Challenge as something exciting and strive to enjoy all challenges.

8. They have a flexible and positive attitude.

9. They live by the presupposition, the meaning of my communication is the response I am getting.

10. They are persistent and always have an association to the outcome no matter what it looks like, they are absolutely certain they will achieve their Goal.

How many of these skills do you currently posses and what are you doing to improve them ?

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Monday, May 11, 2015

The Cookie Cutter Strategy | NLP is Fun

How to get it right every time - Cookie Strategy | NLP is Fun 

Have you ever tried to make a cookie and with all your best intentions the Batter  merged into one massive pile of "Goooo" on the baking sheet, or the bottom of the Biscuit was hard and Black Yet the top was much too soft?
If this sounds familiar , read on...

Lots of Patterns that can be found else where have good ideas and can be duplicated in other contexts too.

Here is one I designed earlier from making successful Biscuits/Cookies.

Try it on for size and let me know if you really like it.
There are 5 Steps to making a perfect Cookie and if you are not a regular cookie maker you may just think "if I just follow the recipe it will all work out".

As in life there are other external factors that could alter your end result, sometimes that are subtle differences that are not always supplied with the recipe.
Read on to find out more. 

Step 1.

You should begin with quality Ingredients - make sure your Sugar is not clumped your Flour is fresh your eggs are the best available and all your ingredients have the High standard that you would expect to taste at your end result.

Step 2.

It is important to be delicate with the flour - if the flour is not handled with respect the air factor will not create the light and fluffy cookies you are hoping for. Over handling can make for hard flat and even lumpy cookies, Trust that you have done all you need too with care and confidence.

Step 3.

Are your measurements accurate - sometimes when rushing, you may have a pinch too little of this and heavy handed with that remember what you put in is what you will get out.
Take your time and be careful with substitutions to make sure they are appropriate to this particular cookie.

Step 4.

Sometimes the slightest difference makes all the difference - did you know if you chill your cookie dough before baking your cookies will have a chance to set well.
There are often tiny overlooked details which separate mediocrity from excellence.

Step 5.

Now that your cookies have come out of the oven nicely and you have achieved your goal, it is important to protect and preserve your Investment with proven tools that work.
You will need to first let your cookies cool completely, then store them in an airtight container so nothing can get in and nothing can leak out, in this case even air makes a difference.
Be Patient and understand the complete process which is the overview and also the minute details that make all the difference.

Always Create a strategy for success, Instead of just winging it. These are Rules that you like and want to implement because you know they will give you the result you are looking for. Something that has worked before is a great place to start. Might need some fine tuning to work in this particular context but hey, you have nothing to loose.
Be willing to adjust it as necessary and keep it moving.

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Thursday, April 30, 2015

How to Anchor a Peak State | NLP is Fun

If you are interested in being highly motivated then you will love this post about Anchoring yourself into States that leave you feeling on Top of the World.


If you were interested in creating a Chain to get you there then read this article.
This Article speaks about Spatial Anchoring 
This article also from NLP is Fun speaks about changing your mood with Anchors
Flip through for additional information about Anchoring.

Here is How to create an anchor for a Peak state for Peak Performance that you can do yourself.

Decide on the state you want to achieve 
Remember all of the times you had this state before, perhaps use the Circle of Excellence exercise to help you.
Maybe you had states that were similar too that you would like to revisit and incorporate, begin to focus on them and Amplify them so you can maximize your experience.

Watch yourself experiencing the state in a Mind movie and continue to build and expand the state using your full sensory experience:

Engage full sensory Experience
Visual = Seeing
Auditory = Hearing
Kinesthetic = Feeling
Olfactory = Smelling
Gustatory = Tasting

Now add these experiences into what you want to experience right now. Fully experiencing the Peak state you desire with your whole Mind Body and Soul, in full congruence.

Find the point you would like to anchor on your body or even use some type of other signal which means this is the state and locks it in.

Reminder:
You will anchor the state just before reaching the climax of the Peak so that you get the full effect of the association.

If you go past the Peak the association will be on its way coming down again.
You can do this very easily and quickly and each time you fire it, you will experience the state again and again.

Anchoring is One Trial Learning, it doesn't have to be complicated. It sticks unconsciously so don't over think it.

Having an anchor that you designed will override any opposing neurology.

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Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Train your mind to Focus on what you want | NLP is Fun

Did you know that you can actually Train your mind to only focus on what you want?
If you do not, Your mind will try to hypnotize you to believe in things that haven't happened yet like.
Things in the Future
Or
Things in the Past
Most of the time these things ...
Are not happy thoughts either and they affect how you feel
They Might even scare you.
You can always use NLP to change your state quickly.

Why not Focus in the Present by changing your own Physiology and begin to notice what is working right now.


Think about everything that is great about right now and live in this moment.
This moment is happening right now, embrace it and appreciate it.
You can Create the life that you would like to have instead in your mind starting with this very moment,
How do you want to feel right now ?

It will not happen unless you make sure you experience it in your mind first, then before you now it it will seem like second nature.
No matter what your circumstance go to a place of Gratitude and well being in your mind now.
And then use the Mind programming techniques in NLP to Train your mind to only focus on what you want.

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Monday, April 27, 2015

Notice your Breathing and change your state - NLP is Fun

Did you know that to begin to notice your breath, is to be aware of your Physiology.
As we know our Physiology will change our state.

Our state is number one, getting this right, is the foundation of all success.
When you can and do manage yourself by getting your state right first, it changes how you can connect with other people too and also how you behave. Your actions will turn into habits.
Your habits create your lifestyle.

For example: to be reactive to things that happen outside of you is less than resourceful, especially if you consistently loose your Temper and your focus.


When you begin to care more about managing yourself, it is a simple as beginning to notice your breath and your physiology.

Have you noticed when you feel relaxed and confident your breath is easy.
When you feel stressed or anxious your breath struggles and becomes rapid and seemingly takes on a life of its own.

If you can focus on your breath ...
And ..
Notice ...
The Space in between ...
Each breath ...
You can ...
Easily begin ...
To Relax...

Try it on for size and then move up to.

Connecting your heart beats ...
To ...
Your Breath ...

This will change how you manage yourself.

Remember: It is Impossible to lead anyone well when you cannot lead yourself into Resourceful states Victoriously.

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