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Sunday, December 11, 2011
Robert Dilts - Authentic Leadership
In the following clip Robert Dilts speaks about the differences between Management and Leadership. He makes distinctions that outline "Authentic Leadership" or Alpha Leadership.
I hope you enjoy watching as he simplifies his ideas on how an effective Leader manages themselves and their own "Inner Game" first.
Remember Internal words create Feelings and these feelings create actions, unconsciously these Actions over time become habitual.
Robert Dilts explains how with NLP we can change these processes.
We speak about self management often, if one is unable to manage ones self one will not be able to consistently show up and manage other people.
I hope you really enjoy the simple way Robert shares his ideas on this subject which are most often overlooked in people and organisations.
Robert also explains the significant energetic drains that will spread through teams, departments and even throughout a whole organisation as a result of overlooking these distinctions.
Specialized NLP Training can help organisations by training Execs and HR departments to understand how to qualify new Leaders and identify these qualities right from the beginning.
A company who invest in great leaders will become far more effective in the long run than companies who retain managers that lack the Self managed and motivated qualities threaded through and through a true leader.
People and companies can become far more resourceful in these challenging economic times as we begin to understand how this works, and plan accordingly.
Nisada Coaching
I hope you enjoy watching as he simplifies his ideas on how an effective Leader manages themselves and their own "Inner Game" first.
Remember Internal words create Feelings and these feelings create actions, unconsciously these Actions over time become habitual.
Robert Dilts explains how with NLP we can change these processes.
We speak about self management often, if one is unable to manage ones self one will not be able to consistently show up and manage other people.
I hope you really enjoy the simple way Robert shares his ideas on this subject which are most often overlooked in people and organisations.
Robert also explains the significant energetic drains that will spread through teams, departments and even throughout a whole organisation as a result of overlooking these distinctions.
Specialized NLP Training can help organisations by training Execs and HR departments to understand how to qualify new Leaders and identify these qualities right from the beginning.
A company who invest in great leaders will become far more effective in the long run than companies who retain managers that lack the Self managed and motivated qualities threaded through and through a true leader.
People and companies can become far more resourceful in these challenging economic times as we begin to understand how this works, and plan accordingly.
Nisada Coaching
Thursday, December 8, 2011
Laughter changes brain chemistry
Did you know just by having a laugh you are changing your chemicals and you are connecting your physiology and mind which always is great to change your state.
Makes sense doesn't it since you immediately feel better, don't you.
I love a good laugh, here are some that make me smile and some that make my laugh hysterically.
Nisada Coaching
Makes sense doesn't it since you immediately feel better, don't you.
I love a good laugh, here are some that make me smile and some that make my laugh hysterically.
Nisada Coaching
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
How to become more patient
The other day I was watching a client become impatient with a person who was doing something he disliked.
I noted that his lack of patience or tolerance didn't seem to bother him, in fact what was interesting to me was that He was impatient with somebody who wasn't learning fast enough, who was making the same mistake over and over again
He was oblivious to where and how that very same pattern was showing up in his own life and stopping him from making the desired progress.
Has that ever happened to you one way or another ?
I think we can all benefit from a little more patience and Tolerance at times.
Here is a Pattern by Richard Bandler that I modified and offered to him for extending his patience and Tolerance.
NLP is fun when you make things work for yourself, no one pattern will be the same for everyone, make the adjustments that achieve your own desired results.
Step 1
a) Think of a time you were very successful in demonstrating great patience, empathy and tolerance.
b) Begin to notice the feelings, and the direction they spin in naturally
c) Amplify the sensation as you become more aware of the spinning movement
Step 2
Think of a situation you would like to show more patience etc in next time
Step 3
a) Practice by spinning the feelings of Patience, Empathy and Tolerance and any other positive feeling which will help you to gain the desired state.
b) Engage all the senses of the challenge that usually pushes those buttons.
c) Continue to spin the pleasurable feelings despite any feelings of annoyance until they fade away.
d) Amplify the annoyance and play with shapes and sizes to see how it affects the whole mood.
e) Keep going until the feelings are all pleasure.
f) Top it off by Internally noting how good natured you are as a reward
Step 4
Continue to rehearse mental and physical drills often before the event, it will become second nature to your mind to access these states the more familiar they become.
Step 5
Add a Physical movement to the process, an anchor, this will help you to "Flip a switch to the desired behavior" as soon as you become aware of the need.
Step 6
Adjust and add more or less of the bits that seem right for you, make this pattern your own and have fun with it.
Nisada Coaching
I noted that his lack of patience or tolerance didn't seem to bother him, in fact what was interesting to me was that He was impatient with somebody who wasn't learning fast enough, who was making the same mistake over and over again
He was oblivious to where and how that very same pattern was showing up in his own life and stopping him from making the desired progress.
Has that ever happened to you one way or another ?
I think we can all benefit from a little more patience and Tolerance at times.
Here is a Pattern by Richard Bandler that I modified and offered to him for extending his patience and Tolerance.
NLP is fun when you make things work for yourself, no one pattern will be the same for everyone, make the adjustments that achieve your own desired results.
Step 1
a) Think of a time you were very successful in demonstrating great patience, empathy and tolerance.
b) Begin to notice the feelings, and the direction they spin in naturally
c) Amplify the sensation as you become more aware of the spinning movement
Step 2
Think of a situation you would like to show more patience etc in next time
Step 3
a) Practice by spinning the feelings of Patience, Empathy and Tolerance and any other positive feeling which will help you to gain the desired state.
b) Engage all the senses of the challenge that usually pushes those buttons.
c) Continue to spin the pleasurable feelings despite any feelings of annoyance until they fade away.
d) Amplify the annoyance and play with shapes and sizes to see how it affects the whole mood.
e) Keep going until the feelings are all pleasure.
f) Top it off by Internally noting how good natured you are as a reward
Step 4
Continue to rehearse mental and physical drills often before the event, it will become second nature to your mind to access these states the more familiar they become.
Step 5
Add a Physical movement to the process, an anchor, this will help you to "Flip a switch to the desired behavior" as soon as you become aware of the need.
Step 6
Adjust and add more or less of the bits that seem right for you, make this pattern your own and have fun with it.
Nisada Coaching
Friday, December 2, 2011
Mix and Mingle with us this Sunday
We will be having an Informal Mix and Mingle on Sunday December 4th come and ask questions meet others, Network discuss and enjoy a wine tasting with us, This is all complimentary.
bring your friends and find out more about the types of meeting we have.
Make new suggestions and in general mix and mingle with other interesting people.
We look forward to seeing you and having a blast for the years end.
I will be in the Total Wine Education room at Boca Park 2pm - 4pm for those of you who want to come and discuss issues, Hang out with some cool people, ask advise and more.
I look forward to seeing you there.
Nadia.
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
NLP - Language Pattern - But Don't
In NLP and Hypnosis we often use language patterns purposefully that we are already really familiar with and using at unconscious levels to get what we want.
In this case I have put together a few examples of how we can stack language pattern combinations in just one sentence.
Remember words are powerful and evoke responses at an unconscious level by mere suggestion, ask any Hypnotist, Business Person, Mother, Wife, Husband, Teacher, Coach, Trainer, Leader, Manager, Poet, Storyteller , Historian ...... What we all have in common is the power to make progress and influence the end result.
Remember words are powerful and evoke responses at an unconscious level by mere suggestion, ask any Hypnotist, Business Person, Mother, Wife, Husband, Teacher, Coach, Trainer, Leader, Manager, Poet, Storyteller , Historian ...... What we all have in common is the power to make progress and influence the end result.
Let us have some more fun with Language, when learning new language patterns Keep it simple, practice and build it up with experiences.
The better you get at them the more combinations you can stack together and use them in Hypnosis intended to make progress with your suggestions for light, conversational, waking and Deep Trance.
Have you ever heard anything like this before ?
Have you ever heard anything like this before ?
We can find multiple language patterns in each of these statements But Don't concern yourself with that, First focus on how many way's you can find to include "But Don't" in your own sentences to influence an outcome in your favor.
Like this:
Q) Would you like a cup of Tea
A) Are you having one ... I will if you are But Don't make one just for me ..
This Pattern will be useful when you use it tomorrow to get what you want but don't take my word for it just remember last time you heard these patterns work seamlessly for yourself.
Examples:
" That nail polish you like is on sale at the department store"
"Really are you going that way, I would love to get some more of that fire engine red color, But don't bother to go out of your way just for me
I know your eyelids are getting heavier but don't close them just yet before you relax a bit more and take another deep breath now just for me ..
The yellow dress looks the best on you but don't wear the one I like please yourself if you prefer the other one.
Having fun with words can be a great way to challenge your mind but don't get too good at it will you
You probably will realize you are using these word combinations already But Don't forget to use great rapport at the same time other wise they may come across as too pushy.
And Also
Have some fun with it But don't Like and share my blog post so you can continue to be head and shoulders above the competition.
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