Thursday, September 22, 2016

How to develop Faith | NLP is Fun

I have written before about the NLP "Act as if"  Pattern here which is very helpful in rehearsing the idea of F.a.i.t.h :
Feel
As
If
You
Already
Have it.
This Info graphic is adapted from the "Self Confidence formula" described in the book Think and Grow Rich By Napoleon Hill.


Since I have been an NLP Mastermind Facilitator now for close to 4 years now.
Napoleon Hill speaks about the way to gain Faith through Auto suggestion which we call Self Hypnosis.
He speaks about suggestion and Mind power in programming the mind for success in order to get what you want.

In anyway of affirmation. The point is being relentless in persuading yourself it will happen.

To have confidence in oneself and ones contributions is essential. To believe that what you want and cannot see yet will materialize outside of your mind too.
In the Self love process I refer to it as "Standing with your self" If you have asked for it or put a project forward, then build up belief to impress on the unconscious mind that you are serious about it.

In other words have Faith, it will work out exactly how you want it to be.
Do you remember NLP Well formed outcomes you can read about it here  and if you want a relaxing strategy to get clearer using self hypnosis then set some time aside for 10 steps to congruent Goal achieving.

The clearer you get with your intentions, the more the unconscious mind will know exactly what you mean. And the more associated you will become to your outcomes.

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Wednesday, September 21, 2016

Consistency is Key | NLP is Fun

If you are determined to achieve anything then one of the things you will learn very early on is the value of consistency.
It is easy to be consistent when you feel like it, but since we are "Bundles of conditioned responses " you may not always feel like it.


Get into the habit of saying words that inspire you, and decide to stay focused and motivated. When you set an intention to succeed in any given area also factor in to it how you will keep yourself on track.

One of the things to consider is every action causes a reaction. As long as we are not maintaining our state we are at the mercy of our environment and those who influence us on a daily basis.
This can be Family members, our partner, people we work with and anybody who we interact with. Not only that it can be News, Work, Church or anything that suddenly changes our mood.

If we are to consider things from an esoteric vantage point. All is information and Light.
All Information can enlighten us, or lead us into darkness.

Gold Dust 
I call this Christmas Tree which is an upward spiral of amplified feel great this is gold dust you can create magic within this powerful state.
Or a Downward spiral which is all of your personal power very quickly going down the drain.

To become mindful of your state, then is essential.
Decide to monitor your own moods for your own feedback as to how you are doing, also another thing that is essential is to do so without judgment.

I said in many blogs before Criticism and judgment are two sides of one coin. In other words if you do one you will also do the other. to others and also to yourself.
Criticism and Judgment both lead to a downward spiral.

The Alternative is always love, The Self love process reminds you to:



1. Think loving thoughts
2. Accept yourself fully
3. Stand with yourself
4. Be Kind with yourself
5. Take loving actions
The self love process can and will be expanded into how you engage with anyone too once you are used to thinking this way.

Thursday, September 8, 2016

10 Easy NLP Communication Tips | NLP is Fun

Did you know, one of the NLP presuppositions is "The meaning of your communication, is the response you are getting"
In other words how your communications lands, is the impact of your Communication,
Remember,  a great rule of thumb is:
Does it feel good or bad ?
There is a great chance that, if you feel bad when you communicated it, it will feel bad when being received.


Sometimes in a misunderstanding, the person who communicated did not mean to offend another person.
However, the person can still get offended. The person can experience the offence and still choose how to respond.
The action following the impact is in the hands of the receiver.
The receiver can always choose how they respond to any offence.

The transmitter can adjust their message.

In the end good emotional self management is essential to all parties.
The less a person can manage their emotions the more often they will find themselves being offensive and offended.

In communication, so many factors are present, so here are 10 easy NLP Communication Tips that work every single time:

1) Become even more mindful of your own intentions and clearly understand what you mean before you even start.

2) Calibrate the feedback you get from the persons response, begin to notice everything
a) What can you see
b) What can you hear
c) How does it feel

3) Always decide to take the higher ground, getting the communication back into the "feel good" zone

4) Be flexible and focused on your original outcome and intention always
5) Observe any triggering effects present in your own responses
6 ) Decide to become less reactive and more proactive in all communication
7) Use Breath to centre yourself at all times
8) Believe you are capable, of getting things back on track
9) See yourself as powerful, visualize the resolution
10) Hear yourself sounding at your best and others responding well to you.

If you spend a few moments practicing this each time, it will become an unconscious process for you.
I must say, the dividends are endless, starting with you feeling better.

Richard Bandler used to say "How much pleasure can you stand" ?
I think that is the real question. don't you ?


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Thursday, May 19, 2016

Powerful Suggestions | NLP is Fun

Today I would like to speak about the importance of how you can use powerful suggestions for yourself and others while in Hypnosis.
I have drawn inspiration from Kirin webb 's Language pattern Bible which I highly recommend.

Kerin speaks about How Dick Sutphen uses "Power words" and Direct suggestions in his Hypnotherapy Audios.
I am a Fan of Dick Sutphen and had the chance to Interview him many years ago. He was made to be a Hypnotherapist with his easy and powerful Hypnotic intention and delivery.

I also use Power words in my own client work and it can be a super extension to maximize Affirmations while embedding them into the unconscious mind. The fact that you are delivering them in altered states is Everything. Well we already know the power of Hypnosis.

This changes your Neurology instantly and begins the deliberate process of shifting limitations in your old way of doing things.
Now you can get into the frequency of what you really want.
Tada ! What could be better, that is just Magic Dust, in my opinion.

Here is my own extended example of How you too can use them with other people.
Ready, say the Following:

1) You are Incredible
2) You feel Incredible
3) You notice Incredible things happening for you
4) You see yourself doing incredible things
5) You hear people saying how wonderfully incredible you really are
6) Say it in your mind now " I am incredible"
7) Say it again "I am Incredible"
8) Notice how your feelings change when you admit just how Incredible you are
9) Look for opportunities to prove you are incredible
10) Feel glad about the fact that you are incredible
11) Going forward whenever you say "I am incredible" in your mind or with your voice with the absolute intention of being incredible, your unconscious mind will realize this is your preferred channel and filter more and more incredible thoughts, people and situations for you to enjoy.
The more you do this the easier it will become and that in itself is absolutely Incredible. Isn't it.

Btw: if you enjoyed reading our NLP Blog then why not look through  some of our other informative posts on NLP is Fun.
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Thursday, April 28, 2016

What would you do if you were not afraid | NLP is Fun

What would you do if you were not afraid ?
That is the question of all questions isn't it.
You may have heard this before many, many times and so much so that you have not yet talked the time to think about it.
It is a great question though, isn't it because .. what would you do if you were not afraid ?


And when are you likely to change this. In this Video I ask some pretty thought provoking questions. Check it out.


Next question:
Do you really want it ?
Don't you think it would be fun trying to achieve it ?

Imagine something great for yourself instead.
The Self love Process online course Here

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Tuesday, April 26, 2016

You can do it | NLP is Fun

To live an extraordinary life one must have an incredible relationship with your internal representations.
What you Say, What you think, the pictures you play and What you believe inside your head all make a massive difference to your success.

NLP is all about engaging with yourself differently for the sole purpose of reprogramming your Unconscious mind which is in charge of how effectively you naturally do things.
To be effective in using NLP patterns is Magic dust because you can shift your Neurology in a Jiffy.
Here is a simple formula:
Feel Great results in more Motivation and Enthusiasm powerful results through a Filter of "Can do" and Possibility.

Feeling Bad results in a downward spiral and low motivation, Filtering is "Cannot and don't know".
You can tell how people feel by the way they speak and hold themselves.
It feels bad to be around people who constantly feel bad and it feels great to be around people who constantly feel great.
Of course if you  feel bad most of the time you may also become irritated with people who choose to feel great no matter what.
So if you want to feel better then make it a priority and just decide to put good stuff in your mind always. The more you take care of your great mind, the more your great mind will know how to take care of you.

Imagine something great for yourself instead.
The Self love Process online course Here

Btw if you enjoyed reading our NLP Blog then why not look through  some of our other informative posts on NLP is Fun.
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Saturday, April 23, 2016

Who is to Blame | NLP is Fun

I was reminded by an Info graphic on Face book about putting your power into the hands of other people.
Specifically about being afraid of what other people think about you.
The presupposition being an idea that Other peoples opinion of you is more important than what you think about you.
We have in many ways been taught that as an unconscious lesson.
It is however a powerless position, because you are then seemingly at the mercy of people and their good or bad Judgment about you.

What if they don't like you
What if they don't like what you do
What if they don't like what you say
Does that mean you are not good enough ?
In NLP we would say good enough compared to whom ( this can be a great clue to what the underlying fear is)
Surely this is exhausting !

I had a lot to say about this because I used to care so much about what people thought about me.
It was an endless parade of trying to fit into the parameters of what they (People) deemed acceptable for me.
But the trouble is the Goal post kept moving.
As I managed to squeeze into one of their boxes they would set up another, I couldn't keep up!

Photo Credit: We are all Random here via Face Book
This is why I designed The Self love Process.
This external and Inner critic that finds something wrong in all you do can also become an anticipation.You may have been doing this your whole life and so much so that you believe somebody is to blame for this.

Instead of focusing on Blame, Focus on feeling better. Filtering differently is essential to renew your personal power.

You can re-frame this and just stop doing what makes you unhappy in other words just value yourself.
Truthfully, I had to just learn how to breathe and focus on what would I like, and how do I feel about myself.

Take the spotlight off them and bring it back to the fact that you deserve to express yourself however you like.

This truly is a Self esteem issue. As you build up your own Self worth your perceptions will change about "Trying to fit in" and "Make yourself small" for others.

I gave it a great deal of thought since 4 years later it popped up again on my time line review asking me if I would like to share it again or ignore it.
It was a great way for me to think about how I personally had evolved since first posting it.
Not only this,it is just a few Days since Prince died at just 57 years old.
I loved Prince to me he was an original who believed in himself in the most extraordinary way.
He committed to his process and to living the life he preferred.
He wasn't afraid to completely switch it up at any time and he was extremely graceful while doing so.

I have seen him live three times and his death impacted me in a way that I wanted to share with others here is what I said.
" I saw Prince 3 times and every single time he was literally amazing. 
The second time I saw him I got the chance to go on a very small stage with him as he serenaded us with Guitar and song.
Of all the musicians I have seen Live, I think he was probably the most talented. 
He did his own thing and whatever he did, he was a perfectionist, he certainly was a real artist.
May you rest peacefully in Blessed Love" heart emoticone thing is for sure You Really Lived, You served a great purpose and used your life well "smile emoticon
So beautifully the time line graphic coincided with what I had taken from my experiences of Prince and how he lived.

I realized it boils quite simply down to this:
Do you allow other people to decide your life for you or do you live your life on your own terms.
Even if people have no respect for you, undervalue you or are unkind to you. Do you allow them to become more important than you especially when they are Bullying you into submission and are still not and never could ever be satisfied.

Do you remember this Blog written on NLP is Fun in 2011

I have heard and experienced so many accounts of people who have been relentlessly emotionally abused through criticism by others who do their best to control how you are living so that they can feel better about you.

It can be Family, Friends, Partners, Children, Spouses, Church / book club members you name it. A person who is Bullying you doesn't care about you understand that part first.

In 2010 I made this Video in response to the "It gets better" campaign against bullying people who are different and you can watch it here .

So let us get down to it:
Ask yourself "How can you even think of wanting to confirm to their ideas of what you should be".
Would that be living your life as if you are really Living ? or do you listen to your heart and make your way back to you and what you know is right for you.
Do you dare to live as if you really mean it shining your own light or live in fear of  them rejecting you.

Who you think you are is what matters and daring to be your best self and go for it.
Do you have something really great to share with the world ?
Does what other people think about you stops you ?
Let us consider another angle: here is a reminder of what The Self love Process wants you to focus on.


Remember there are simply five main things you can do to get back on track:

1.Love yourself on the Inside = Connect to your higher best self in self confidence
2.Accept yourself fully = No matter who does not accept you
3.Stand with yourself = In belief and Personal Power
4.Be Kind to yourself = Always say good things to and about yourself
5.Take loving Actions = Make the best choices bearing these things in mind

Most importantly if you forgive them and yourself you will feel miles better. Holding them into the energy of their rotten behavior keeps this association going. Remember Perception is projection.

Imagine something great for yourself instead.
The Self love Process online course Here

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