Change is good NLP is Fun 2024

Happy 2024 Change is good is it not ?

It is good to greet you again  in a brand new year 2024.

A new year, has the phenomenon of feeling like a new chance, doesn't it. I hope this is how you feel. 

So many things happened in 2023, Didn't they how about you, how is everything going with you.

Richard Bandler said we must learn to embrace challenge, and the idea that there is always alot to learn during a challenge.

Learning things that will help us to solve our own problems in new unconscious ways. Even ways in which we may or may not have much or any conscious awareness of.

This is true isn't it for the most part and hindsight is 20/20 In my opinion change and or challenge is often easier said than done.

The 'frame' or the Idea of embracing challenge as an opportunity to learn something is not built overnight. 

Patterns, are embedded, unconsciously aren't they, we know this by now surely.

Although, to keep embracing challenge as a possibility will for sure help manouver through challenge better than not.

I will say in my life i am more than familiar with challenge and last year was for sure the hardest year I have ever encountered.

So far i have learned to realise some challenges take more resources than others, have you found that out yet ?.

Some challenges as we know take much more than a single NLP pattern provides.

Bandler has been clear about being creative in finding solution. There is no script .. Keep working on finding solutions until you find something that creates a more useful change for each one.

The brain is doing what it is doing at any given time. Learning more about the brain has been one of my new habits.

I will be sharing more about this as i explore more and discover why we do what we do with Neuro linguististic programming and why it affects brain chemistry.

Kinesthetics = patterns of behaviour.

Also remember perspectives on real challenge / change depending on our position, our perception and what our brain is communicating.

let us consider the feelings, the kinesthetics if u like.

The kinesthetics are truly the schematics, the underbelly of the construct.

It is so much easier to solve a problem that you are dissociated from.

This is why i have called it a construct which begins the process of change doesn't it.

When we think of submodalities we know the connection to a thing changes the magitude of its importance.

Depth of perception, possibility and ability to change it.

Even this is quite a bit to consider. I will leave you with a new feeling of what is to come a curiousity of what will come next.

In 2024 I will share new ideas and new solutions as well as discover things we may or may not have touched that much on yet.

One thing is for sure, there is alot to unpack watch this space change is coming.

If you like this post then be sure to enjoy more NLP patterns and discussions about Hypnosis and Neuro linguistic programming on one of many posts on this NLP blog. 

Always remembering if nothing else NLP is fun.

With love Nadia Harper.

Neuro linguistic programming is fun | NLP is Fun

 Neuro linguistic programming is Fun

When you consider what you can do with NLP and you apply it to your own life, you will discover NLP is Fun.  It is so much fun to use NLP to run your own brain for a change.

With Neuro linguistic programming you can change just about anything in your emotional experience. habits that have held you down for decades, limiting beliefs, behaviors and decisions.

You can improve the relationship with yourself, it is amazing to have these tool to play around with your own mind state and beliefs.

Neuro linguistic programming is fun | NLP is Fun 

You can empower yourself to take on just about anything, you can study your own strong points and become even better in the areas that you detect you could do with the most improvement.

Most People will tell you NLP is about Modeling Excellence 

You can learn anything new and master it with Modeling anyone who has been successful doing anything, anywhere.

Goal setting with NLP | NLP is Fun 

You can achieve goals in the most concise way with Neurolinguistic programming. You can overcome problems as well as become a Top-level communicator.

You can win every argument using sleight of mouth patterns and you can become an influential Negotiator in fact it would be easier for you to ask me if knowing NLP will improve ___________?

You can break associations to habits and people that are no longer practical or useful. You can change your entire life and career.

Neuro linguistic programming is fun because it opens up a whole new world of possibilities.
What fun are you having with NLP at the moment?

How to use Neuro linguistic programming to shift your state within Minutes | NLP is Fun

How to use Neuro linguistic programming to shift your state within minutes.

There is always time to take care of yourself emotionally we can consider it part of our daily routine.  Here are four easy actions to master this right now.

Use NLP to Shift your State | NLP is Fun

• Interrupt the problem and shift your attention inward.
• Slow you breathing down 3 times and 3 breaths each and watch all thoughts fly away.
• Slow your heartrate down claim your desired state into being and relax.
• Shift your state and connect to your best self in body and mind.

Taking control of how you feel is essential in Neuro linguistic programming and we call your mood your state (of being).

NLP is based on the principle that you prioritize your state to become highly effective. Each NLP pattern focuses on using sensory acuity to manage your state.

The exercise demonstrated uses Kinesthetic responses to Interrupt the pattern and shift your physiology while imagining something better for yourself while in this state,

When you manage your mood (state) you feel better and more capable of doing more, more easily, more consistently.

How to use NLP to shift your state within minutes|#NadiaNLP 

 

It is far easier to imagine better for yourself once you have shifted your state.

Energetically you may say you have "raised your vibration" which many say is the perfect state for manifestation of more of what you really want. 

Remember managing your state is easier than you think and simpler than you think, the benefits of doing so are endless. You may enjoy this and if you let me know how it works for you.

4 Ways to Improve Auditory Awareness as a Neuro linguistic programming coach | NLP IS Fun

A huge part of truly mastering Neuro linguistic programming is your ability to calibrate information. We as neuro linguistic programming coaches and change workers have a different take on listening, this is because we are so interested in the words, tonality, cadence, inflection and so much more.  We consider all of this additional information that adds meaning to the words you choose.

The last two years during the pandemic is a perfect example of how becoming more adaptive with sensory based information became so much more relevant, since we were no longer connecting in the ways we had been so used to.
We were unable to meet in person or have a large group. In this case how we presented information changed. Neuro linguistic programming training that traditionally had been done face to face in many cases was 100% online or via telecommunication, email, video.

NLP coaches were mostly coaching with their telephones now and online.

We also found there may be times it was not possible to have any visuals and only have auditory sensory calibration capabilities.

Communication is what we as Neuro linguistic programmers do, we love to learn your "model of the world".
This information is relevant and priceless to us and considered information gathering. 

Because to us listening is more than just hearing. Being fully focused and present to the information being presented in its original form. Without adding anything to it, instead listening exactly how it is being presented and examining each subtle nuance.

Notice what you can notice that lends more information or creates some type of micro shift and explore it to find out what is going on.


If you have been one of my long-time readers of NLP is Fun you may be familiar with this post, I wrote about your Auditory representation system which is also a worthwhile read.

Here are 4 ways to Improve auditory awareness as an NLP Coach

4 ways to Improve Auditory awareness | NLP is Fun

1. Listen to tonality = the speakers tone always gives much more information as to the strength of the statement belief, or mind state at time of communicating. Ask yourself "what is the meaning of this" and explore more.

2. Listen to Rythm and Pace changes read my blog post about Rhyme, Rhythm and Hypnosis here   for more about communication Language and Rythm.

3. Listen to the speakers breathing and notice heart rate, if possible as well as body language does this appear to match the pace of the words being communicated. 

4. Listen to repetitions, metaphors, reasons and beliefs each one adding volumes of clues.

Think of yourself as a communication investigator and have fun investigating. Remember do not add assumptions of your own and be objective in your findings. 

It is your turn, how do you feel about doing this, perhaps you have another tip have you ever had great success by doing these and more please let me know in the comments.

Get it if you want it | NLP is Fun | NLP Modeling

Do you know with NLP we are in the business of change and transformation?

We are speaking about Neuro Linguistic programming.

We will create a system for us to get whatever it is that we want, because those of you who know, know the heart of NLP is Modeling.

So, with that being said, define what it actually is that you truly want. and find somebody who is already achieving it in the way you would like to experience it.

Become a student of their behavior, their habits, beliefs, driving forces, rituals and patterns. Then Visualize yourself doing these things as often as you want to actually fully associate to yourself and changing your own perception of whom you are and what exactly.

Now remember that your sensory association to this process is everything, and I mean E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G.
In order for you to move into this process You absolutely must shift your consciousness which means begin something Brand Spanking New.

Be Prepared to step into something that looks new, sounds new, feels new, smells and tastes new.
We call this change.

As you focus 100% on these new patterns, they begin to replace the old ways for something even better for you.

And now you know exactly how to do it.

You will love it, be sure to let me know how you get on.

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What will you create Next | NLP is Fun

Students of Neuro Linguistic Programming learn how to become flexible in how they perceive reality. As NLP Practitioners we have learned that "The Map is not the Territory" and although something may seem "static and immovable" anything can most certainly be Improved at some level. Neuro Linguistic Programmers by now have discovered our Attitude (State) predicts our flexibility and how willing we may be to discover alternatives.

NLP is Fun blog has over 300 Neuro Linguistic Programming posts. 

Our Beliefs will help us or hinder us depending on how willing we may be to transform beliefs that prevent us in achieving our outcome. 

Quite simply, a belief is a construct nothing more or less. A belief is construct that has either been installed by others or ourselves, and all of our actions are a demonstration of our beliefs. 

The more information a person has, the more stimulation a person has in constructing, strengthening or deconstructing their belief.

The source of information is important and perhaps state dependent. Like attracts like which is great if you are always evolving you will seek an expansion of your knowledge.
The person with the most flexibility wins, and you will find the more you can maneuver through obstacles consistently and become adept at being creative and flexible the more choices you will find as a vehicle to achieve your goal.

Mental drills and mental rehearsal that takes place within your own mind are the field of unlimited potential and multiple choice. With your very own mind, everything is possible with that being said, what will you create.

Richard Bandler and John Grinder as well as the other contributing Founders of Neuro Linguistic Programming have created a vast ground work for us to make our very own playground.  It is up to us to indulge all of our sensory awareness into creating new experiences that make our own toes, curl back with pleasure.

How much time are you spending on creating something you will love for yourself, there are infinite possibilities when you turn your attention inward and create something else.

Bruce Lee said become  like water.  

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Why Try | NLP is Fun

NLP is Fun is committed to helping you have practical NLP Tips, NLP Lessons and NLP Courses that change your mind and life for the better.

That being said we do not do Try here. Neuro linguistic programming has given us the resources to decide how to drive our own bus. 

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"Why Try" when a person says "I will Try" they are in two states at one time these states are something like: 

• I do not believe it will work or that I can do it but I will try anyway.
• I will do it even though I cannot do it and I am not even sure I want it but I will try anyway.

This is incongruent and conflicted how much effort is going into the result. as opposed to the internal dialogue that doubts it can be done.

For me the greatest problem is in the Expectation, they do not congruently expect to succeed and they have not yet made an actual decision, or maybe they have but it is a secret.

Have you ever seen this being muscle tested ? it turns out the operator gives a very weak "Try" effort compared to when they make up their mind to do it which is a very strong and certain Muscle test.

Try to open your car door to get in, or Try to open a can of soup you would like to eat for lunch. What happened on your visualization did you achieve it or did you loop the movie over and over and over.

There are two things happening here Two states and one is moving toward and one is moving away from.

Do this Experiment if you find you have reasons not to that you have not "officially" committed to.

Just Try to visualize yourself having achieved it. what ever it is first. at the very least you will have gained more information as to what the real issue is. At best you will achieve it. and as Nike says Just Do it !

On the other hand many of us will use Try as a Negation language pattern, "Try not (or don't) to enjoy this as much as I know you would love to". it is super hypnotic isn't it. and the listener has to take a course of action if they want to get the conversation back on track,

Many of us believe "Try" means do not. and if a person uses it hears a watered down version of  "I will not ____________"!
For sure as a coach I believe it will be more resourceful to think of the client mismatching themselves. and look for further themes that repeat this pattern. where else does the client mismatch or contradict or polarize.

Calibrate Test Operate Test Exit. I welcome your thoughts on this matter

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100 Reasons to Learn NLP | Neuro Linguistic Programming | NLP Training | NLP is Fun

100 Reasons to Lean NLP - Neuro Linguistic Programming 

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Learn NLP and change your llife changing experience

As many of you know I am also a Firm Believer in Self Hypnosis, and I recently wrote "More than 100 reasons to learn Self Hypnosis" take a look.

Now I know that some of you already know what Hypnosis is, but do you know what NLP is  ?
In case you are wondering how exactly, in fact it will change your life, or how to use it for the best

I have made a list of 100 reasons to Learn NLP for those who are in the process of learning more  about knowing NLP will change your life. This is only just scratching the surface mind you. There can be thousands more reasons that you will find in your own opinion.

1. You will truly feel great, perhaps properly for the first time ever in your life

2. You will finally be able to change your moods quickly and effectively

3. You will feel Empowered for the simple reason you know exactly how to feel better about anything

4. You will begin a journey of understanding yourself 

5. You will now experience people's behavior in a way that doesn't frustrate you 

6. Your Impossibles become Possibles

7. You will see peoples behavior as clues to learn more about how to connect with them

8. People will suddenly think of you as a person who can read their mind

9. You will be able to understand what is not beings said and qualify it

10. You will know how other people actually make a decision 

11. You will know how to motivate any individual after spending just a few moments with them

12. You will become an expert communicator

13. You will know how to continuously Improve yourself

14. You will know what a "Meta monster" is 

15. You will be able to adopt the successful habits of others and get similar results for yoursef easily

16. You will know what questions to ask to get to the real answers you want

17. You will know how to predict a persons next move

18. You will learn how to communicate with a difficult person and influence them to adopt new behavior 

19. You will have the tools to change your whole life, for the rest of your life

20. You will be able to help other people change their minds and their actions too

21. You will be able to do more than you ever thought you could with what you had before

21. You will become better at games theory including Poker and other strategic games

22. You will be able to turn an argument into an agreement

23. You will know how to be be more popular than you are now

24. You will know how to calm yourself down and be confident in a highly stressful situation

25. You will know how to overcome any fear of Phobia

26. You will learn how to really engage with anyone in a short space of time (even those you don't care for) 

27. You will learn what your own problems are and the necessary steps to solve them 

28. You will know how to be a better partner, family member, Employee, Employer than you were before

29. You will find a way to apply NLP and gain success in all your situations as they show up 

30. You will learn how to encourage yourself from the inside out, even on a "Bad" Day 

31. You will know how to go from Goal Setting to actual action each step by step

32. You will know how to motivate others to achieve results with win win outcomes 

33. You will know when and how to speak in a conversation

34. You will Understand much more about what is not being said in communication and why that is important

35. You will know exactly how to make the best decision for yourself

36. You will become a better parent, and relate to children even better than before

37. You will know how to ask for what you want and get it, without having a tantrum with anyone

38. You will Learn how to understand what makes any person more energized, happy and accommodating

39. You will know how to use your own mind more effectively Improving each and every day 

40. You will know how to turn people on or off, you and your ideas

41. You will be able to convince people of things they should or should not do by using their own objects

42. You will be able to use Non verbal communication to persuade other people to make better choices

43. You will be able to suggest unconscious ideas to people that they then act on (for their own good)

44. You will be able to Negotiate more powerfully than ever before 

45. You will learn how to listen to a persons words to know how they secretly feel about their choices

46. You will know when a person is really into you and tuned in and how to keep them there

47. You will know how to find out the real thing a person is afraid of in a negotiation or sale

48. You will know how to gain the tools to improve any business or personal relationship in your life

49. You will know how to get noticed when you were used to being overlooked before

50. You will know how to be appealing to the opposite sex even if you don't consider yourself good looking

51. You will learn how to instantly energize yourself even when you are really tired or down 

52. You will learn how to gain friends easily in any social setting 

53. You will learn how to stop a negative thinking loop that kept you stuck for years in seconds 

54. You will know how to create a vortex of helpful emotions in another person at the drop of a dime

55. You will Learn how to become a better Presenter than before

56. You will Learn how to become easier to get along with no matter how awful you were before

57. You will learn how to change your paradigm quickly changing unhappy programming once and for all

58. You will be able to gauge when you are being effective and when you are not and when to Shift gears

59. You will be able to use language patterns that influence people instantly

60. You will be able to improve your critical thinking and become more resourceful by habit

61. You will be able to reprogram a troubling past event or memory to something much better

62. You will be able to change how you are connecting to your emotions when you are Angry, Sad or Mad

63. You will be able to enjoy better sexual experiences, including gaining more pleasure each time 

64. You will learn how to gain a more youthful appearance, and turn over a new leaf  

64. You will learn how to kick a Rotten habit that you no longer want

65. You will learn how to become the most Influential and persuasive person you know

66. You will learn how to read faster gaining more understanding than ever before

67. You will learn how to become the voice or reason in times of extreme pressure

68. You will know what buttons to push in order to get a direct pleasing win win result

69. You can change the way you are behaving even if you have been doing it for a lifetime

70. You can change your life from fearful to cheerful 

71. You can help a person to feel calm in an extreme emergency 

72. You can help a child to learn better in spite of any learning disability

72. You can help somebody who is stuck in an addiction 

73. You can overcome an addiction yourself

74. You can Make learning anything more interesting and appealing

75. You can teach teams to work well together

76. You can help managers become for effective leaders 

77. You can become more productive personally and professionally, finally overcoming procrastination

78. You can create an agreement of peace even with an Enemy 

79. You can learn exactly how to ace any interview

80. You can learn how to profile the right personality for the right job 

81. You can become a better Physician, Dentist, Nurse, P.A,NP, Hospital Staff

82. You can become a better Entertainer, Actor, Performer of any kind

83. You can learn how to reduce your own stress and start a fresh each time

85. You can learn how to manage your time better

86. You can learn how to be a better Artist, Musician, Dancer

87. You can mend rifts in broken relationships and get them flowing nicely again

88. You can learn how to lead people to do better and want to follow your lead 

89. You can learn how to modify or stop your intake or Alcohol, Food, Drugs, Cigarettes, Sweets

90. You can learn how to change the emotional impact of people who criticize you

91. You can learn how to overcome fears that have held you captive for far to long

92. You can Learn how to achieve the results you want each time and with precision

93. You can get control of your own life with real tools to commit to take daily action   

94. You can impress Everyone that knew you before you were this progressive

95. You can read people's eye expressions and know where they are going in their brain for answers

96. You can create a life story that makes you feel happy and empowered

97. You can Help other people in their lives in a way that changes their whole experience

98. You can shift your thinking that changes how you do everything, and you can keep fine tuning it

99. You can Finally Live the life you were afraid to dream of before

100.You can dare to begin to experience your best year ever

Of course if this doesn't wet your appetite then Email me and I will come up with a vault of reasons specific to you personally and how your own lifestyle will improve after learning NLP.

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