Speaking in Absolutes | NLP is Fun | Neuro linguistic programming

Neuro Linguistic programmers believe and overstand "The Truth of the Matter" is that it just may turn out that "Truth" is a version of a person's subjective reality.

What a person repeatedly does is an unconscious construct based on their habitual beliefs that they demonstrate as truth.

May be absolute Certain, unshakable truth to them. To a Practitioner of Neuro Linguistic programming, it is that persons "Map of Reality". 

"The Map is not the Territory"| NLP is Fun | Nadia NLP 

Dr of Philosophy Robert Anton Wilson also added that it is more effective to let go of speaking in Absolutes.

Like: "This is True ... You are an Idiot if you do not know this etc." Type of "Frames" in conversation.

Instead, you could say:

"One might say, I believe that ______"

"I have found that _______"

"It seems to me ______"

And while we are on the subject he suggests:

"The Thinker Thinks" and "The Prover Proves" for instance:

If you believe it enough, you are more likely to adopt it as Truth and Prove it to whomever. Which you may believe validates your "truth".

And any person can do this.
This is why a Scientist can prove her own Bias. Journalist and Bestselling Author Lynne McTaggart wrote in "The Intention experiment" that it turns out a Scientist becomes a part of (Entangled) in his own experiment.

It may be his beliefs influence his result; she proves the result she expects. Each one may prove what they believe. It turns out all of this may be "Subjective reality"

As NLP Practitioners we have already learned that "The Map is not the Territory" 

Author and Biologist Rupert Sheldrake may add the Morphogenetic resonance of your thought influences (Changes) the outcome.

Perhaps the structures of your expectations show up in all of your behaviors. Like "The observer Effect" in Quantum Physics of Changing a particle into a wave (Double slit experiment).

Like Energy Technologies Author and Master Trainer Richard Bartlett D.O uses for his Matrix Energetix to transform any Matter.

As an "NLP'er" we are interested in all beliefs that support the highest probable outcome for our client.

so, the question may be How is having that belief helping them to achieve their outcome.
As long as it is helping them to get where they want to be and not hurting another person's ecology there is no need to challenge it. perhaps we can agree on something else if we disagree. we can agree they are allowed to believe what they like even if it is about us. Can we not?

I am curious, what are your thoughts about this? How do you feel? Do you believe this may be true in some way or do you know for sure this is Rubbish?

I encourage your feedforward.

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What will you create Next | NLP is Fun

Students of Neuro Linguistic Programming learn how to become flexible in how they perceive reality. As NLP Practitioners we have learned that "The Map is not the Territory" and although something may seem "static and immovable" anything can most certainly be Improved at some level. Neuro Linguistic Programmers by now have discovered our Attitude (State) predicts our flexibility and how willing we may be to discover alternatives.

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Our Beliefs will help us or hinder us depending on how willing we may be to transform beliefs that prevent us in achieving our outcome. 

Quite simply, a belief is a construct nothing more or less. A belief is construct that has either been installed by others or ourselves, and all of our actions are a demonstration of our beliefs. 

The more information a person has, the more stimulation a person has in constructing, strengthening or deconstructing their belief.

The source of information is important and perhaps state dependent. Like attracts like which is great if you are always evolving you will seek an expansion of your knowledge.
The person with the most flexibility wins, and you will find the more you can maneuver through obstacles consistently and become adept at being creative and flexible the more choices you will find as a vehicle to achieve your goal.

Mental drills and mental rehearsal that takes place within your own mind are the field of unlimited potential and multiple choice. With your very own mind, everything is possible with that being said, what will you create.

Richard Bandler and John Grinder as well as the other contributing Founders of Neuro Linguistic Programming have created a vast ground work for us to make our very own playground.  It is up to us to indulge all of our sensory awareness into creating new experiences that make our own toes, curl back with pleasure.

How much time are you spending on creating something you will love for yourself, there are infinite possibilities when you turn your attention inward and create something else.

Bruce Lee said become  like water.  

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NLP Milton Model | Indirect Patterns of Elicitation | NLP is Fun

Do you like Ericksonian Hypnosis, if you love Neuro Linguistic Programming you would love these Indirect Elicitation patterns which come from the Milton Model. which of course is the Language Modeled by Richard Bandler and John Grinder on Milton Erickson

Here are Milton Ericksons Indirect elicitation patterns 

Using them will get a response that is extremely specific even though it is requested in an indirect way.

Embedded Commands

Softeners on either side and the Command Embedded in to the middle. I have written about this extensively here 

"Perhaps you already know that you will decide to go, in the end"

Analogue Marking 

Set the Command apart by using some type of Marker you are "Marking" out an action that needs to be taken either by changing your voice tonality in some way or using a tool to touch as you speak of this action each time.

"You may realize that Everyone loves being Hypnotized in one way or another" 

Embedded Questions 

And Embedded Question is a Question that is hidden within a larger statement.  

"I am wondering if you would like to be hypnotized again when we next do it" 

Negative Commands

Put the Negative first and act as if you do not want what you want.

"I don't know if you like this style of language pattern or not" 

Conversational Postulates 

If I say this, you could say yes or no but what I really like about it, is that you take instant action instead.

"Could you shut the door" 

"So as you go inside, wherever you go when you get in there I often wonder where you go inside, you know how far can you go, and what I want you to do is remember ."

Richard Bandler

Remember these incredible hypnotic patterns begin the process of change and transformation as the person has to go inside to discover all of their answers.These are suggestions within suggestions that work wonderfully, can you imagine how well they will work for you to now ? 

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NLP Mind builders | Belief Engineering | NLP is Fun

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