How much has having that problem cost you so far | NLP is Fun

Lets talk a little bit about Problems.

We all have them, and we have learned that it is not so much about the problem, that is the problem it is more about how you are responding to your problem, that could be the real problem.

For example do you believe that you are at Cause or Effect of the problem

At Cause = I can change it myself (I may need additional resources and yet it is possible) I will be accountable for designing my life.

At Effect = I cannot change it, it is beyond my own personal influence (I will wait until it blows over) in the meantime I will place the blame on people and things.

Your Beliefs are influencing what you think and that is influencing your behavior.

Beliefs = Thoughts = Feelings = Actions = Behavior

In the long run, is that really working for you in the way you had hoped for ?

Your Beliefs can be changed at any time, just by your decision to do something about it.

Once of the best things to do is to reverse engineer your results and find out if you think your action (in a certain behavior) supported your outcome.

If you don't think it did then you can begin to learn why you did not necessarily put your best foot forward.

Lots of people do great things most of the time, some time and then may also talk about ways in which they self sabotage themselves regularly.

The more choice and flexibility we live by the greater chance we have of Winning in any situation.

Something that Richard Bandler likes to ask is "How much Time and money have you spent on that problem"

So lets do this as a homework assignment:

Get a piece of paper and ask yourself:

What has having this problem cost me so far in actual money

What has having this problem cost me so far in Time and Energy 

How much more will this problem cost me in the next:

6 months

12 Months

2 years

5 years 

If you like you can begin to experience it on your timeline since you like having this problem and enjoy the full impact of being fully associated to the problem for a change.

Ok then, so what are you going to do about it ?

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100 Reasons to Learn NLP | Neuro Linguistic Programming | NLP Training | NLP is Fun

100 Reasons to Lean NLP - Neuro Linguistic Programming 

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Learn NLP and change your llife changing experience

As many of you know I am also a Firm Believer in Self Hypnosis, and I recently wrote "More than 100 reasons to learn Self Hypnosis" take a look.

Now I know that some of you already know what Hypnosis is, but do you know what NLP is  ?
In case you are wondering how exactly, in fact it will change your life, or how to use it for the best

I have made a list of 100 reasons to Learn NLP for those who are in the process of learning more  about knowing NLP will change your life. This is only just scratching the surface mind you. There can be thousands more reasons that you will find in your own opinion.

1. You will truly feel great, perhaps properly for the first time ever in your life

2. You will finally be able to change your moods quickly and effectively

3. You will feel Empowered for the simple reason you know exactly how to feel better about anything

4. You will begin a journey of understanding yourself 

5. You will now experience people's behavior in a way that doesn't frustrate you 

6. Your Impossibles become Possibles

7. You will see peoples behavior as clues to learn more about how to connect with them

8. People will suddenly think of you as a person who can read their mind

9. You will be able to understand what is not beings said and qualify it

10. You will know how other people actually make a decision 

11. You will know how to motivate any individual after spending just a few moments with them

12. You will become an expert communicator

13. You will know how to continuously Improve yourself

14. You will know what a "Meta monster" is 

15. You will be able to adopt the successful habits of others and get similar results for yoursef easily

16. You will know what questions to ask to get to the real answers you want

17. You will know how to predict a persons next move

18. You will learn how to communicate with a difficult person and influence them to adopt new behavior 

19. You will have the tools to change your whole life, for the rest of your life

20. You will be able to help other people change their minds and their actions too

21. You will be able to do more than you ever thought you could with what you had before

21. You will become better at games theory including Poker and other strategic games

22. You will be able to turn an argument into an agreement

23. You will know how to be be more popular than you are now

24. You will know how to calm yourself down and be confident in a highly stressful situation

25. You will know how to overcome any fear of Phobia

26. You will learn how to really engage with anyone in a short space of time (even those you don't care for) 

27. You will learn what your own problems are and the necessary steps to solve them 

28. You will know how to be a better partner, family member, Employee, Employer than you were before

29. You will find a way to apply NLP and gain success in all your situations as they show up 

30. You will learn how to encourage yourself from the inside out, even on a "Bad" Day 

31. You will know how to go from Goal Setting to actual action each step by step

32. You will know how to motivate others to achieve results with win win outcomes 

33. You will know when and how to speak in a conversation

34. You will Understand much more about what is not being said in communication and why that is important

35. You will know exactly how to make the best decision for yourself

36. You will become a better parent, and relate to children even better than before

37. You will know how to ask for what you want and get it, without having a tantrum with anyone

38. You will Learn how to understand what makes any person more energized, happy and accommodating

39. You will know how to use your own mind more effectively Improving each and every day 

40. You will know how to turn people on or off, you and your ideas

41. You will be able to convince people of things they should or should not do by using their own objects

42. You will be able to use Non verbal communication to persuade other people to make better choices

43. You will be able to suggest unconscious ideas to people that they then act on (for their own good)

44. You will be able to Negotiate more powerfully than ever before 

45. You will learn how to listen to a persons words to know how they secretly feel about their choices

46. You will know when a person is really into you and tuned in and how to keep them there

47. You will know how to find out the real thing a person is afraid of in a negotiation or sale

48. You will know how to gain the tools to improve any business or personal relationship in your life

49. You will know how to get noticed when you were used to being overlooked before

50. You will know how to be appealing to the opposite sex even if you don't consider yourself good looking

51. You will learn how to instantly energize yourself even when you are really tired or down 

52. You will learn how to gain friends easily in any social setting 

53. You will learn how to stop a negative thinking loop that kept you stuck for years in seconds 

54. You will know how to create a vortex of helpful emotions in another person at the drop of a dime

55. You will Learn how to become a better Presenter than before

56. You will Learn how to become easier to get along with no matter how awful you were before

57. You will learn how to change your paradigm quickly changing unhappy programming once and for all

58. You will be able to gauge when you are being effective and when you are not and when to Shift gears

59. You will be able to use language patterns that influence people instantly

60. You will be able to improve your critical thinking and become more resourceful by habit

61. You will be able to reprogram a troubling past event or memory to something much better

62. You will be able to change how you are connecting to your emotions when you are Angry, Sad or Mad

63. You will be able to enjoy better sexual experiences, including gaining more pleasure each time 

64. You will learn how to gain a more youthful appearance, and turn over a new leaf  

64. You will learn how to kick a Rotten habit that you no longer want

65. You will learn how to become the most Influential and persuasive person you know

66. You will learn how to read faster gaining more understanding than ever before

67. You will learn how to become the voice or reason in times of extreme pressure

68. You will know what buttons to push in order to get a direct pleasing win win result

69. You can change the way you are behaving even if you have been doing it for a lifetime

70. You can change your life from fearful to cheerful 

71. You can help a person to feel calm in an extreme emergency 

72. You can help a child to learn better in spite of any learning disability

72. You can help somebody who is stuck in an addiction 

73. You can overcome an addiction yourself

74. You can Make learning anything more interesting and appealing

75. You can teach teams to work well together

76. You can help managers become for effective leaders 

77. You can become more productive personally and professionally, finally overcoming procrastination

78. You can create an agreement of peace even with an Enemy 

79. You can learn exactly how to ace any interview

80. You can learn how to profile the right personality for the right job 

81. You can become a better Physician, Dentist, Nurse, P.A,NP, Hospital Staff

82. You can become a better Entertainer, Actor, Performer of any kind

83. You can learn how to reduce your own stress and start a fresh each time

85. You can learn how to manage your time better

86. You can learn how to be a better Artist, Musician, Dancer

87. You can mend rifts in broken relationships and get them flowing nicely again

88. You can learn how to lead people to do better and want to follow your lead 

89. You can learn how to modify or stop your intake or Alcohol, Food, Drugs, Cigarettes, Sweets

90. You can learn how to change the emotional impact of people who criticize you

91. You can learn how to overcome fears that have held you captive for far to long

92. You can Learn how to achieve the results you want each time and with precision

93. You can get control of your own life with real tools to commit to take daily action   

94. You can impress Everyone that knew you before you were this progressive

95. You can read people's eye expressions and know where they are going in their brain for answers

96. You can create a life story that makes you feel happy and empowered

97. You can Help other people in their lives in a way that changes their whole experience

98. You can shift your thinking that changes how you do everything, and you can keep fine tuning it

99. You can Finally Live the life you were afraid to dream of before

100.You can dare to begin to experience your best year ever

Of course if this doesn't wet your appetite then Email me and I will come up with a vault of reasons specific to you personally and how your own lifestyle will improve after learning NLP.

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NLP - Act as If | NLP is Fun

NLP Pattern "Act as if" | NLP is Fun 
There are times when each of us is set with the challenge of learning something brand new or being in an unfamiliar role. One of the main things to overcome is, being nervous or lacking the confidence that inevitably comes with experience.

Not only That this pattern trains your brain by acting as if it has already happened. This changes your beliefs in the area of high anticipation and deep expectation.

For people who are Manifesting, getting into the amplified feeling of high expectation is essential to your success.

NLP offers an arsenal of resources to assist in this area.

Today we will learn to Act as if !

We can use this as a framework to add to or take away from in any capacity that we can think of before, During and after an Event.

#1 Think of the situation you are not sure of your competency in, and want to improve in today.

#2 Choose a mentor, somebody you believe would have a wealth of knowledge in this area (that you wish to learn from and improve in) this mentor can be Dead or Alive, known or unknown to you.

#3 Find the Limitation in your own beliefs and turn it into a sentence for example: I don't believe I can _________ .

#4 In your mind now tell the Limitation to your mentor, explain all the reasons why you feel this way.

#5 Receive all of the encouragement that your mentor is offering to you, including any feedback sandwiches and questions your mentor asks you that lead to positive action on your part.

Your Mentor may say things like:

“You are very good at _____ and you consistently demonstrate expertise in ______ perhaps you could invest some time in learning _______ which will add to your confidence while doing _________”

And/Or

“And what stands in the way of ________”

“If you achieved ______________ what would change in your life if anything.

“Are you prepared to commit to the process of being _____________________.”

And so on.

#6 In your mind now, demonstrate to yourself walking through the process that will work for you. Feel the support of your mentor who is assisting and observing you. Now begin to notice exactly what steps are making all of the difference to improving this process and leading to your success.

Explain what you have done differently, to your mentor that is now working for you.

#7 Your mentor asks you if you feel competency in this area now on a scale of 1-10 and asks for you to go through the steps of the process and refine it until you feel complete confidence in this area.

#8 It is now Showtime and time to demonstrate your skill, Imagine doing so in front of a large Audience of family and friends who all support you and are cheering you on.

You now have a chance to sail through the process and demonstrate your improvement, Just Imagine their applause and approval as they marvel at how much you have improved in such a remarkably short space of time.

In the meantime, Act as if for any situation that you are hoping to grow into.

Go there first in your own mind as many times as you like, fairly soon you will take your desire on board unconsciously.

The beauty of this is that your unconscious actions now become congruent with your conscious wants.

Even though this is a fast piece of work, you can take as much time with it as you like, building up and layering beliefs one on top of another.

Most of all have some fun with it.

Act as if by rehearsing these mental drills a few times daily to really get in the flow of it.
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How to Hypnotize Anyone

Watch as I demonstrate a Progressive relaxation induction in front of a class at an NLP Training and explain what I am doing as I go along.

If you know hypnosis, find a partner to practice with and take it in turns going into trance, have fun with it.
If you don't know hypnosis yet, or you don't feel confident enough yet just begin to pay attention to:

The different things I say
How I use my voice
How I use breath
How I use my Body
How I pay attention to what the subject is doing
How I use Timing
The suggestions I give her
The Feelings I create within her
The Post Hypnotic suggestion I give her
How she responds
What she says about it at the end.

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Cartesian Logic | NLP is Fun

Cartesian Logic is a very simple line of questioning attributable to Rene Descartes who was a French Philosopher in the 15 and 1600's.

It is a great way to examine questions and answers from every angle especially in a coaching setting.
Of course if you use this pattern for yourself you will enjoy it too.

The end result will determine the next steps to take, a result of logic all points toward the same answer.

The 4 Questions:

1.What would happen if you did

Inverse
2. What would happen if you didn't

Converse
3. What won't happen if you did

Non mirror image reverse 
4. What won't happen if you didn't

Ready ? 
Lets do a Demo :

Question
I am thinking about going for my masters in art history in 2012.

1.What would happen if you did ?

Answer 
I would have a masters in Art History which would make me eligible for Teaching at professor level, thus giving me more choices.

2. What would happen if you didn't ?

Answer
I would not be eligible for some of the programmes I long to be involved in and I won't be able to teach Art History at Stanford University as I had hoped to do in 2014.

3. What won't happen if you did ?

Answer
I won't feel stuck with my life as I do now.

4. What won't happen if you didn't ?

Answer
I will not make as much progress as I want to in my career.

Conclusion
So in this Demo it appears logical to make the decision to go for the Masters.

Your Turn.
Why not take one of your own questions and put it through the cartesian logic paces and find your own logic.

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