Showing posts with label nlp language patterns. Show all posts
Showing posts with label nlp language patterns. Show all posts

Friday, February 13, 2015

The NLP Meta Model - Surface Structure - Deep Structure - Experience - NLP Language Patterns

The NLP Meta Model is series of Language Patterns used in Neuro linguistic programming. The use of the NLP Meta Model is extremely specific. NLP  Meta Model Language pattern is all about Information gathering.

The NLP Meta Model consists of:

  • The Surface Structure
  • The Deep Structure 
  • The Experience.
The Surface Structure:
If you hear people in NLP speaking about the Surface structure they are speaking about the "Tip of the Iceberg" which is the persons way of  using language via Stories, Metaphor, explanations and details that they want to share with you at any given time.

This communication, has been prepared to be the most pleasing or effective in getting their point across coming from the Conscious Mind and is not necessarily congruent with the whole person.

The Deep Structure:
Is the way in which a Person sorts for information and processes through their own Communication Model.
This Involves their:
Beliefs
Sensory experience
Preferred Processing Style
Meta Programs
Past Experience
Perceptions of Choice and possibility 
Submodalities 
And all Unconscious Behavior
Just like their Knee Jerk reactions and responses, that they may not want to make public info.

The Experience:
Is their Conclusion
The Roundup
What they have summarized before they respond to a question you have asked
Their Map and their Reality.
It is the way they have coded and Re Presented the Experience into their Neurology.

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Wednesday, August 13, 2014

NLP Language Patterns | Non Sequitur Suggestions | NLP is Fun

Lets talk about NLP Language patterns today.
Quite frequently people speak in Non Sequiturs they begin with one statement and attach another seemingly irrelevant statement as a conclusion.

This can be quite confusing and distracting to listen to. It is usually used as a detour, a decoy, the person changes the subject by using this technique and your attention must shift when you allow it to go unquestioned.

Many of today's Reality TV shows are filled with people who use these as everyday language.


If any of you work with Coaching clients or in Management of people these non Sequiturs often shine a light on a Limitation and disconnect in a persons thinking. The person is not connected to their own accountability role, due to a deficit in belief of the available resources perhaps.

On the other hand, they are wonderful to use as a pattern interrupt and a confusion induction in persuasion, covert Hypnosis and Ericksonian Hypnosis.
So let us play with them a little, or a lot ..

Here is what they sound like:

1.You can Hear the Relaxing sound of my voice so you will go into Trance faster with grace and ease
2.Lots of people have had success with NLP and you can Visualize yourself at your Best now
3.Exercise is great for the mind because you begin to notice yourself being even more productive now
4.Practice makes perfect so you can notice becoming even more confident
5.Everyone likes chocolate and having a good night of sleep helps a person wake up early in the morning

Example One:
There are three parts to this sentence:
First part of sentence 1.
"You can Hear the Relaxing sound of my voice"

Then a bridge in the middle
Second part of sentence 1.
"So you will" 

The third part is a totally unrelated end statement
End part of sentence 1.
"Go into Trance faster with grace and ease"

Example Two:
First part of sentence 2
"Lots of people have had success with NLP"

Second part of sentence 2
 "and you can"

End part of sentence 2
"Visualize yourself at your Best now "

Ok, I wonder if you are getting the hang of it now because then you will become more flexible in your own communication.

Have fun practicing these Non Sequitur Suggestions

Tip:
The two statements do not need to have any relationship to each other
It implies that the end result is a conclusion of the first statement
It does not need to make sense
It bypasses the critical faculty
The person goes inside their head to search for understanding of your statement = Hypnosis
Think in terms of rhythm when putting them together.

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Tuesday, September 4, 2012

NLP - Semantically Charged Words | NLP is Fun


Let us have some wickedly simple fun while remembering something we can make use of every day.

Introduction:
This pattern I am sure you are already using, so now I will bring it to the forefront of your mind and then you can use it even more deliciously.

We can add emphasis to our statements by using this pattern for an extra zest. The Emphasis word is meant as an extended descriptive or amplification of meaning.

These additions are well partnered with the appropriate energy and Tonality for a thoroughly congruent transmission.

This is great for Hypnosis of any kind and helps to express a suggested emotion to set the tone in the statement.

Examples:
I'll bet you are looking forward to getting home once and for all and truly enjoying a peaceful night of well deserved restful sleep in your own bed for a change.

I am so Psyched about Tuesday aren't you I can hardly wait

The kids will be thrilled to see their new Bikes when they get back

The dinner last night was Amazing in every sense of the word

You are going to be so stoked to see what I have for you this time

You can Totally notice her transformation

He sounded Completely different

They are entirely exclusive to this area

She is such a sweetheart

Seriously take a bite you will love it

Conclusion:
I have underlined the Charged additions, now your turn I am certain you will have fun making some of your own

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Saturday, October 15, 2011

Milton Model Language Extended Quote

Richard Bandler Said The truth is people like to feel good for absolutely no reason at all.



My client Susan said she noticed that when she concentrated on feeling better she was so surprised how much better she began to feel more of the time.


Yesterday I was talking to my friend Stuart who said when he got serious about getting in great shape, he began to show up to Run each morning, the more he got in to the rhythm of it, the better he noticed he felt about his own achievement, which led him to accomplish much more in his business life too.


Milton Erickson used to use the technique of indirectly saying a thing by shifting accountability to another speaker.
(I mean it wasn't as if I said is .. They said it, I am only passing the message along ...)

A funny thing happens then, I didn't say it but the person I am talking to gets to experience the full impact of the message without having any conflict in their conscious mind.

This language pattern is so simple and handy it bypasses the critical faculty and immerses the listener into their own imagination before they know it.

Of course you shouldn't just take my word for it, should you.
Some of the Greatest NLP Trainers of all time say, chunk information down into bite size pieces and then you will find yourself having as much fun as possible learning new things.


"Slow and Steady wins the Race"
Aesop's Fables


Tuesday, March 22, 2011

NLP Language pattern Cleft Sentence | NLP is Fun

Let us Take a quick peek at some NLP - Hypnotic Language Did you know:
The more language patterns you do Consistently the better you will feel about Hypnotic language.

It is probably because of your persistence in practicing language patterns Daily That you find Interesting  ways to slip them elegantly into conversation.

Language Patterns can be Chunked down to Tiny chunks and practiced until you get a thorough understanding of how many ways you can use them.

Today we are Learning Cleft Sentence:
Here is another Example:

It was great Discipline on your part to continue studying NLP even when u got busy and I am sure that is why you are excelling right now.

It was the idea you had of making it fun in the first place that allows your Learning to happen so quickly

It is splendid the way you set aside a few moments each day to study NLP that is why you are doing so much better than those who are not.

It is useful to repeat examples 3 or 4 times and that is why the structure of this pattern becomes so obvious.

The Structure is becoming Obvious isn't it... It is a simple 3 step process:

1) "It" Begins the Frame
It is a presupposition which allows a person to accept more without second guessing or questioning what the speaker is suggesting.

2) That comes next and is followed by a solution.
It is because I put it first
that I then convinced you about that
3)= being the answer to your being  fabulous

Can you Notice how simply one can play with words and influence at the same time?
How many cleft sentences can you make immediately ?

Richard Bandler suggests doing around about 100 for each language pattern.
It is because you take the time to practice so much that you unconsciously run them off so perfectly ..

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Monday, March 15, 2010

NLP Beginners Study Group March 16 2010

Learn NLP in an Experiential Setting of Study and Application
This group has been set up to Assist those of you who are curious about NLP may know some about NLP and want a thorough Foundation to :

What NLP is
What NLP can be used for
Why NLP
How NLP will change my Life
What real Techniques I can learn from NLP
How I can use NLP on my own Problems
How Learning NLP affects your confidence and Improves your Life
How I can use NLP on other People at Work
How NLP Teaches us to Experience the world differently

As Usual we will combine the use of Neuro Linguistic Programming & Hypnosis through Experiential Teaching to allow you to Immerse yourself in the full Impact of the Advantages of NLP.

This Group Gives all Student's a Self Paced experience Leaving no one behind in a Solid Foundation of NLP.

It is Designed to be a 4 part series with each week Beginning where we left off in the Last week.

What will I get when I attend.

Discussion of all Techniques Used
Live Examples of Applications being taught
Recorded Examples of all Techniques being Taught
Multiple Level unconscious Demonstration and application of All Techniques being taught
Handouts to take home practice and Study
Practice Time at the Study Group
Home work assignment to be completed before the next Group
Follow up and Aftercare of what you have learned
Question Time to resolve any Learning Anxiety you may have experienced in the past.
Assistance in Learning all new applications of NLP

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Sunday, March 14, 2010

How to use a Bind in Hypnotic Language | NLP is Fun

For those of you who are curious about Hypnosis here is a small chunk on the use of Some Binds you can use during your inductions:

These Binds are made famous by Milton Erickson who was known for smooth executions such as these in his language patterns.

Some are Simple Binds and some are slightly more complex, here are the examples:


Simple Bind: 
Would you like to come now or regret coming later ?

Double Binds:
I wonder whether you will notice the change in yourself or others sooner or later.
Coué Binds:
Which means that if at sometime you try to think about hypnosis like you used to, you'll also discover, even if you try not to, that you will begin to sense a better option coming to you.
Time Double Binds:
I wonder if you will notice how you have improved on the day you come or a day later.
Double - Dissociation Binds:
You can discover a resource without knowing how you did or know how you did without knowing where it came from.
Reverse set Double Binds:
Now i know it has taken you some time to decide to continue learning hypnosis, and i respect that. And there are obviously things that you want to Improve on in your own time. So Let's agree that you will begin them when you are good and ready. ok
Non Sequitur Double Binds:
Intermediate Hypnosis is available to everyone and you will feel more confident.
Emotion Binds:
And know... as you become more confident and more positive, or just more happy about things generally ... you might like to ask yourself: how will the change happen? and then wait and see when they start, what you notice. 

Conscious /Unconscious Double Binds:
Even if you consciously consider changing without knowing how you will do it you can unconsciously know how you'll do it without thinking about how it is done.
You to can learn how to execute these Binds and more .. find out here:
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Sunday, December 13, 2009

Meta Model Deletions intensive - NLP Teleclass

The Meta Model is A Precise Linguistic Pattern of Information Gathering Designed to Reach the "deep Structure of The Speakers Map of the World" 

The Meta model is designed to "Chunk down" (get as specific as possible / Detailed Information) to understand the Speakers Experience.

This is useful to Gain a better understanding of how to communicate Excellently and become clear and avoid misunderstanding in the future.
This will prevent others from Bamboozling you and pulling the wool over your eyes with fancy Fast talking as you begin to understand deletions and get a firm grasp on the power Meta model Excellence !

Language and communication are important for all people who wish to improve their relationships to others personally and Professionally.The Meta Model has a Surface Structure and a Deep Structure which Interpret the Speakers Experience.
When you are fully Trained in understanding the Meta Model you will notice how the speaker codes their experience and relates it to the amount of choices available to Her/His Life.
Most Commonly the speaker is Dissociated from the Deep Structure of their experience, and code their language to Surface structure Linguistics.

In other words when you are trained in this modality you will learn to assist the speaker in moving their processes forward and giving options for them to change their mind.


Meta Model = Deletion & Generalization & Distortion

There are 3 ways to Break down this Communication Model:

People Can Delete - Generalize - Distort their experience.

In this Tele class we will be discussing Deletion = Gathering Information !

The Meta Model can be overwhelming to many old and new students of Neuro Linguistic Programming, it involves 12 Excellent Specific Linguistic Patterns
I have chunked this Class down for the attendee to get a full and conclusive understanding of how to successfully apply and master The Meta Model Deletions.



Full Details and RSVP here.


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