Barely a Day goes by where there is not need to negotiate through around or with Somebody or something.
Today was no exception to the rule.
So this morning I had three meetings the third of the three proved to be the most Challenging, lasting over an hour longer than I had anticipated.
I was truly thankful for my negotiating skills as I often am, and worked several patterns pattern tirelessly through the course of our conversation.
Great Communication has much to do with being flexible and checking your emotion at the door.
It just so happens that "NLP is Fun in Las Vegas"Tonight will be learning the Agreement Frame which I am really Excited about.
The Agreement Frame is an Undisputed Champion to have in your arsenal but there is so much more to Negotiating and persuading.
Now that the weather has cooled down and we have less Trainings on the Calendar we can focus on our NLP & Hypnosis Study Groups more so mark your Calendar to head over and hang out with us.
Boy oh Boy do we have some exciting stuff planned ... no peeking ...
Anyhow those of you who are making great progress and keeping yourselfs in learning mode congrats, and those who have fallen off the Wagon, Now would be a great time to begin again.
Come out and join us for the Agreement Frame we will have as many laughs if not more as last nights group had.
See you soon, keep having tons of fun.
nlpisfuninlasvegas (at) gmail (dot) com
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Tuesday, October 26, 2010
Sunday, May 23, 2010
NLP - Time Distortion
Sometimes it is useful to slow down time if it seems Time is going to quickly and you are running out of it and Speed up Time when Time is going to Slowly.
Can you think of a Time that Time seemed to actually last for allot longer than it really did, Like an Exam, an unhappy Holiday Dinner, a Date that was going wrong or a situation you would rather not have been in.
How can we slow down Time, surely that is not possible ?
How we react to Time has more to do with our own Projections in any particular Moment, and we are learning to suggest different things to our mind, so that our mind learns to Execute the action and not worry about too much or too little time.
Can you think of a Time that Time seemed to actually last for allot longer than it really did, Like an Exam, an unhappy Holiday Dinner, a Date that was going wrong or a situation you would rather not have been in.
Even Dreams seem to last longer than they Do.
You can make time to slow down or speed up it is an amazing resource that can be used in any way you can imagine, you can even make up for lost time by speeding things up or enjoy a moment much longer by slowing time down.
Your mind will process Time differently at the Speed of light with just a suggestion directed at the Area you would like to focus on.
If you would like to Focus on Time speeding up you can imagine that you are standing perfectly still and that the world is moving at warp speed around you, if you are studying you can make suggestions that everything you are studying is becoming perfectly integrated within your unconscious mind as you are processing this information clearly and concisely at Warp speed and all of the resources are available to you just as soon as you like.
If you wa----nnn----tttt ooooo g-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-ooooooooooo sssssss----ssssss---lllllllllloooooooooooowww mmmmooooooooooo------t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-t-tiooooooonnnnnn yyyyyyyyyoooo begin to slow everything down so that the world around you becomes veeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrryyyyyy sloooooooowwwwww and again, you make the suggestions that you can savour every last milisecond of the experience as time goooess past and almost stands still in the especially good moments that you enjoy.
One of the things I like to do is Freeze negative thoughts in the Air and just let them suspend in time until I can either visualize and hear them shatter to the floor like broken glass or some of the more persistent thoughts can be put into another more resourceful time for me to sort through !
I can even push some of the thoughts back in time to the rightful owners people who originated these thoughts in the first place.
Have fun with it, and discover how you can change perceptions about time. There are so many ways you can play with Time and use it to your advantage.
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
NLP Training Class - Representation Systems - Visual Sub modalities To The Max - Tele Class
Visual Sub modalities are Part of the Representation System used to code and interpret External information through our own internal process:
There are Five senses:
Visual
Auditary
Kinesthetic
Olfactory
Gustatory
Auditary
Kinesthetic
Olfactory
Gustatory
These combined are called the Representational System.
The Significance of the Representational System and the most effective way to access Sub modalities can often be over looked.
In this Class You will learn all you will ever need to know about bringing your' or other peoples Meanings, Beliefs, and "Maps of the World" to the surface.
Friday, November 6, 2009
NLP Technique -"The Threshold Pattern"

I have chosen The Threshold Pattern as I feel it is a fitting pattern to close out the Year with.
This Pattern will apply to anyone who has reached a point of movement within themselves for wanting change to occur Now in their lives.
Toward the End of the Year is a Great time to reflect on all of your successes and accomplishments and the Goals that you have not yet accomplished.
"The Threshold Pattern" will help you to Take action and start to master your Mind. Overcoming the Fear that had held you back in the past and remembering all your memories of this habit - Pain - Fear from the past. Reliving in a fully associated state several different instances of when this has been an issue before.
The fact is, it easy to get stuck in a rut at times. These things happen little by little and there are many different reasons for us to unconsciously begin an undesirable habit, at the time we may feel there is a certain amount of "Payoff" that out weighs the inconvenience of the undesirable habit Traits.
As long as we are still compromising our Authentic values for the "Payoff" we will be in what we at times call a "Stuck State", yes we may feel frustrated .. although not enough to be successful with the Threshold pattern.
The Threshold pattern will be effective when we have decided the "payoff" is no longer appealing to us and we are congruent with that.
At this point our focus is now fully associated to the pain of the Experience and the undesirable habit or behavior.
Our Values now become important again and we are able to redefine our Value's and have clarity in our Desires.
We are able to reach a permanent paradigm shift to our association with the habit or behavior.
What makes the pattern so effective is the Repulsion and Disgust with the previous behavior that you are willing to face and connect with Now, and how many times and how vividly you are willing to connect with it.
If you are planning to do this by yourself get a feel of it first as it works really well when done quickly to engage the Unconscious Mind.
Think of 5 Times at least when you were Embarrassed Humiliated and generally felt awful about the Habit/Behavior.
Imagine a Grand Scale Movie Screen. Make yourself the starring role and relive the Embarrassment, Pain, Humiliation and awful feeling as you see and hear the habit or behavior in play. *** Amplify all Submodalities *** (Senses)
Repeat this for each time that you remember this habit or behavior in action at Least 5 and do it very quickly.
Now Replay all of it in one Massive big movie of you doing the behavior /habit and commit to fully feel the disgust and repulsion of your own Accountability in this habit/behavior and just notice how pathetic you participating in the whole habit/behavior really was at the time.
Now REPLAY THE MOVIE AND AMPLIFY SUBMODALITIES EVEN MORE.
Crank it up until you are so Physically disgusted that you know congruently that will never be your life again !
Future Pace and make sure you are sure you are over it if faced with the Option in the future.
If needed run as many times as necessary until you are thoroughly sick of the Idea of you doing the habit/behavior.
Remember at the foundation of any habit or behavior that is not enhancing your life is an abundance of Fear.
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