Tricks of the Mind | NLP is Fun

The Mind is very good at convincing you of anything. This has nothing to do with if it is true or not.

Things that you are afraid of are just "What ifs", beliefs. your own home made ideas that you have had on rotation long enough to think of as real. Illusions we know by now that reality is subjective but try explaining that to somebody having a panic attack !
Instead though, there are so many things that you can do to quickly get control of Overwhelm and fear like this for example

To enjoy Peak states we must learn to begin to diligently break down these mental constructions in our mind at the times when there is no pressure to perform.

 You can train your mind to become your best friend and ally.

In NLP we speak about Phobia’s a great deal. Phobia’s are not the exception to the rule as one may 

think,  In fact, they are a demonstration of how easily we can influence ourselves with suggestions. 
This is Self hypnosis at it’s best.

We have programmed our mind to do what we have asked it to do.

“As the Thinker thinks the prover proves”.

Our mind wants to follow out our regular programming and is certainly resistant to change.

Change is good, as long as it is not happening in a way we don’t want it to right ?

Or perhaps this is not true.

Maybe even problems are good and hold value

Perhaps a challenge is just a chance to improve

What if we were to re frame the meaning ?

This means that (bad)

And that means for sure we are all going to die (worse)

And could also mean

This means that (Good)

And that means we will all get something better now 

Isn’t that a relief and a stress release ...

What if we did this instead ?

So the meaning we have decided without really knowing for sure in NLP we call this a "Mind read" which is a Distortion in the Meta Model.

There is information Deleted and yet we have drawn a very fuzzy conclusion.

Guess what, this happens all the time.

Sometimes it can be as simple as following the fear to it’s worst conclusion and then asking well 

what about if ________________________ happens

What will happen then 

And how will that affect you 

Is that really true ?

Do you know this for sure ?

Has there ever been a time when _____________ happened to anyone and they were OK 

Has there ever been a time when ___________________ happened and they were really good in fact they thrived?

This is about connecting to the distortions, as this happens it takes the stuffing out of them.

We are using the Meta Model to begin to chunk down from the ambiguous trains of thoughts.

This means if it is a thought it must earn its position to influence us so greatly.

We must know for sure it is absolutely

Solid Gold

Lock tight 

The absolute undisputed truth 

Verifiable

Provable

Swear on the bible

Everyone in the whole world will recognize it as truth without any problem.

In other words, it is a scientific fact well documented by scientists and other likely learned fellows.

Can you prove your Fear is absolutely True ?

Make a List of 10 ways in which you know for sure your Fear is going to happen.

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Program your Unconscious Mind | NLP is Fun

As Neuro Linguistic programmers we have made a great distinction in our level of commitment to our personal development.
We use Well Formed Outcomes to refine and get clear in full sensory experience with what we truly want. We understand why this exact Outcome is ideal for us.

We know we have all the resources we need within us and can get additional resources outside us too. We plan, we Time line we Test.

We .. We ..

With that being said we have all agreed that The Big one is always to Program our Unconscious mind in the way that we prefer out Actions to support our new wants.
We are aiming for congruence here.

NLP is Fun | Be Certain of Your Outcome

Our Conscious mind connecting with our unconscious mind which we know can only be achieved through Unconscious installation.
Which is why we succeed where other self proclaimed "Self help Guru's" Fail.
We must get beyond the Critical faculty to influence the unconscious mind.

Why oh why .. then do we not apply the effort in Installing the Outcome into our unconscious mind.

Do we believe we can just want it once and it should magically appear.
Is this to do with The Secret (again) and other misunderstood new age Philosophies

Anyone who knows me knows I am a believer of esoteric principles, But for the love or progress let us really believe in what we want.
Let us move through all internal resistance, and let us put in the work instead of giving up after 5 minutes.

Perhaps we have been given double messages in various  Values  filtering systems that it has left a person confused. One book says this another says that ..!
One tells you to persevere the other tells you to Quit or run away "It wasn't meant to be"

I am not sure where exactly or specifically we learned this however in Neuro linguistic programming we take  a different approach and the person with the most flexibility wins.
Hands down every time.

Be flexible
Manage state
Calibrate
Refine
Program more
Calibrate
Future pace
Repeat
Until you get the result.

You have got to be able to build up the belief.
Take the T.O,T.E model for example.

Test
Operate
Test
Exit

There are multiple strategies that will work in any given outcome when one works perfectly it will be evident.

The main point though is that one will work !
Why give up so easily, just do something else and stop doing what you have already identified as useless within this context.
It just means it doesn't fit here but you can still get your outcome, go another way about it.

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NLP is Fun | The NLP Interviews

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Have you ever been on The NLP Interviews which features different Interviews from many Top NLP and Hypnosis Trainers and Experts ?

Go check it out and let me know what you think The NLP Interviews

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NLP is Fun | Take a Break

Have you ever noticed, We live such a fast paced life that it doesn't actually occur to us to take a break sometimes it is all about squeezing so much in so such a short space of time.

 We may have even bought into the belief that if we do not keep on going (even when we are on E) we will loose productivity.

The truth of it is though are we just doing busy work ?
In fact if you take a break and go inside yourself to recharge, you will begin to notice you are actually following your own real intention and connecting once again to your best resources.

Isn't it important to check in and take a break rather than just throwing any old s&%% against the wall just to push something tangible out ?
It depends on you and how clear you are with your life goals and what you are really are truly serious about working towards.

Busy work is not actually productivity, also have you defined ahead of time what you hope to achieve.
As you connect to yourself and your own intention you will get clear and if that means stopping everything then do that.

Spend some time in Breath, and get with 10 steps to congruent goal achieving to figure things out.
A Powerful recharge will change everything if you give yourself the permission to be your best self coming from your most highest intention.

Trust me life still happens with or without you for a few moments, hours, days, weeks, or however long you want.

When I speak about Killing it 2015 this is a huge part of this process, finding your own highest purpose and intention for your life and using every moment purposefully to experience the absolute most out of your life experience.

Even if it is not fabulous in your life at the moment, something great is happening and unless you are willing to experience it fully you will not find it.

Kahlil Gibran said in his wonderful book "The Prophet"
 "The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain". If this is the case all experience has purpose doesn't it.

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NLP is Fun | Behavioral Flexibility

In NLP we learned in the NLP Presuppositions that people are not their behavior.
Certainly the person is valuable and perhaps in any given moment what they are doing is not so valuable to you.

However within some context there is value in what they are doing ..
Also The person with the most Flexibility is able to say in the game longer.

The more flexible you are willing to be the more resources you will locate. Being adaptable provides more opportunities to go after your outcome.

Building, Maintaining and Controlling your state and therefore your own responses comes first. You are in charge of yourself and maintaining You takes everything you have to do it well.

In this way you can elicit a response for your outcome or you will secure the outcome as you recreate a new response and even new responses.

Being flexible is about being empowered and many people think it is the opposite way around.
Being flexible with your behavior and being determined to do so until you get your outcome is the way of peak performers.

People who give up without understanding the Big Picture as well as the details are usually not necessarily focused on the Outcome.
The real questions should always be focused on getting your result.
Next time decide ahead of time and play your game to win.

Remain flexible
Manage your state
Look for opportunities
Shoot to score
Calibrate
Adjust
Repeat
Win

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Create a State of certainty in your Outcome | NLP is Fun

The Power of NLP gives us the awareness of being able to calibrate ourselves as well as other people.

In this day and age getting sidetracked is a way of life for some. With so many online apps, networking sites and Facebook it is a wonder one ever reaches their destination.

Our success in any endeavor can simply be tracked back to our Feelings.
Either it feels Good
Or it Feels Bad

The other thing is at some level you must decide that you want to feel great and that all your choices result in you feeling great.
When you feel great you do great and you will open the window of possibility which moves the process further in the direction you would like.

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When you have an open heart you can connect to your passion and begin to live as Authentically as possible resulting in absolute fulfillment and satisfaction.

Once you have decided you need to maintain a level of certainty. here is an NLP exercise that will help you to do that.

NLP Pattern for Creating Certainty :
1. Think of something you absolutely know for sure
2. Notice all Visual, Auditory, Kinesthetic, Olfactory, Gustatory responses present in the 4tuple
3. find the distinctions in each submodality
4. Think of something you are NOT sure of or do not absolutely believe
5. Notice all of the 4tuple responses for this belief
6. Chunk down to the submodality distinctions and notice the differences
7. Begin to draw a contract between what you are really certain of and what you are not certain of
8. Move the belief that is uncertain into the place of a certain belief until it feels different
9. Place the new belief into the Submodality space of the certain belief until it feels absolutely certain.
10. Future pace to determine if it now feels certain.

Enjoy the exercise and get a notepad to record how you are making progress with it.

Enjoy, and I look forward to your thoughts.
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Eben Alexander Harvard Neurosurgeon talks about Heaven | NLP is Fun

Neurology and Consciousness has everything to do with NLP after all so this is really interesting. I recently stumbled on this story after watching Super Soul Sunday On OWN Oprah Winfrey Network.

Dr Eben Alexander used to tell patients whom had ideas of white lights and Tunnels that they were hallucinating after near death experiences. In his estimation it was not Physiologically possible for this to occur because he thought of the brain activity and these limitations.

After having his own near death experience whilst being in a Coma he shares his own account of what he experienced which has really shaken up our understanding of Neuro science and consciousness.
He shares his story here  one of the most exciting elements to come out of it for me, is once again referring to the power of belief.

One of the quotes he says is Consciousness defies Psychology and even belief. Obviously so.
With that being said the power to change your mind is quite obviously to change yourself.

Enjoy, and I look forward to your thoughts.
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