NLP Mind builders | Belief Engineering | NLP is Fun

What If ....

What if your Beliefs allowed you to do the extraordinary things that you secretly dare not even go for.
What if you could create a brand new emotional experience that gave you an extraordinary amount of Authentic Confidence.
What if you could count on your own beliefs helping you to succeed.
What if you learned how to use NLP to create the life you have longed for
What if when you went for it, you got it.
What if you could overcome negative programming from the past
What if instead of saying that didn't work you were able to know for sure you will find a way to make it work.
What if you could program your own mind to work for your absolute best
What if you overcame unconscious limiting beliefs that sabotaged all of your hard work and your best efforts.

Have you tried really hard to improve yourself but had a hard time getting beyond what you secretly believe about yourself ?
Do you have a hard time of it, expanding your belief to fit a brand new story?
Have you experienced disappointment and because of this feel skeptical that success is for you?
Is it hard for you to visualize yourself having what you say you want ?
Do you want something better but are afraid to believe in it ?
If any of this sounds like something you have experienced then read on
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Can you Imagine ...

Can you Imagine if you had a different song to sing
Can you Imagine yourself living the lifestyle you have always imagined for yourself
Can you Imagine having unlimited resources at your fingertips
A Positive turnaround in your finances
A better way of relating in all of your relationships even the ones you thought of as tricky ones
An incredible improvement that changes everything at work
Becoming more productive and going for it more often

You will have an opportunity to interact with me and each other as well as practice the new techniques  which will change the way you are using your brain,
Change the way you are thinking
Change the way you are creating conclusions
Change the way you are behaving
And create associations that work powerfully in your favor.

Using Neuro Linguistic Programming makes quick work of helping you to shift beliefs in Minutes.
There will be a variety of Tools, Demos and discussions on the above as well as group Hypnosis to bring the mind into the attention of what you want.
How would you like to Build the Beliefs that would allow you to have the Amazing life you were born to have!

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Virginia Satir Demonstrating Flexibility | NLP is Fun

Original NLP Patterns Contributor Virginia Satir of course was a Master of Change work. The way in which she was able to Relate and Communicate with people to achieve her outcome using Verbal and Non Verbal Communication was intoxicating to experience.

Virginia was beyond flexible, always looking for options and choices to dislodge the problem by re-framing the hidden possibilities and options.

She helped us to understand In fact, that the power to Change has everything to do with being willing to be flexible doesn't it.

Have you ever met a person who was unwilling to change and demanded that "things" stay the same or "go back to normal" ?
In fact they would somehow wrestle you to the ground in order to maintain the present state no matter how problematic.

In the following 2 Video's Virginia Satir demonstrates Several Examples of Flexibility.

What I also love about this Video is how she is willing to take many different  positions in response to one particular problem.

When people have a problem, they often perceive there are limited choice available. Perhaps presented as "this or that" and perhaps another option which they have ruled out as they feel as if "it is out of the question".

In this video the gentleman she is helping gets the chance to Phrase his "Problem" and explain it a little bit more every single time and for that he gets a Unique response to each of his statements.

Virginia uses Rapport in a way which demonstrates the value she holds for the Participant.

• She consistently Paces his experience and gains agreement from him then will Lead him. 
• She is an incredibly magnetic Influencer her certainty and determination is Palpable.
• She remains energetic, enthusiastic, Focused and resourceful in her communication.
• Virginia was an advocate for Self acceptance and self worth
• She knew her own worth and was certain of it 
• She valued other people always demonstrating to them their worth.

Virginia's use of Body language and Non verbals is purposeful and extremely Powerful.
 Please enjoy watching these awesome video's.

An available Transcript of these video's is available courtesy of Steve Andreas here 
There is so much we can say about these Video's from Real People Press and the whole lecture of which she was a Keynote speaker is available for purchase here

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NLP Language pattern | Stop | NLP is Fun

NLP Language patterns are the best, Let us speak more about Covert Hypnosis Today.
Sometimes, a Simple word can change everything, as can the way in which you use a word.
When I say change everything I mean:
Make a Change
You can keep the change
Change is Good
And you can change everything by just using one word too.

And the Amazing thing about Playing with language is the response you are getting from those whom you are using Hypnotic Language with.

Today the Word we are using is STOP
Simple isn't it.
One small word with a whole lot of Impact.
This word immediately interrupts any pattern and demands that you take action, doesn't it.

Here is the Pattern
Stop and Consider
Stop did you Notice
Stop and Wonder
Stop for a moment and
Stop and smell the roses
Stop and Imagine this hypnotic Language pattern working in your favor
Stop and Listen to the thoughts you like the most
Stop Chunking everything down and change direction by chunking up
Stop thinking you are rubbish at language patterns and play with this simple one for a whole week

Empowering isn't it, I am excited to know what you will come up with remember, this is only a suggestion.
So Stop taking everything so literally.

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Beliefs Filter our Experience | NLP is Fun

Dear Friends, did you know that once thoughts become Beliefs They Filter our Experience in just about every way.
This means your behavior is a result of your beliefs.
Everything you do comes from a choice constructed from your beliefs.

NLP has a variety of incredible tools to change what you believe and it is really easy when you understand how beliefs are created,
Sometimes this is useful if your  Limiting beliefs are the opposite of what you want to believe. You will know this because you attempt to do something and don't ever have the "belief juice" to accomplish the goal,

No amount of effort will keep you there when unconsciously you are dissociated from your Self sabotaging action that goes against your best outcome.
Perhaps you have also began to say "I can't _____"

It is quite interesting to know that a thought creates a belief and Not an Experience.
An Experience seems as if it Creates a Belief doesn't it.
At least this is what some Believe.

And, beliefs come from our own representations of experience. In other words what we Think about the experience which is a "Meta Level" of the Experience.
And to top it off, the belief does not become fully formed until we have decided that this is Actually our certain conclusion of this experience.

When we are sure about the Meaning of our Thought and confirm this, We can create a belief.
And once we have "made the belief" now the belief becomes a very strong Filter in our every experience.

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Conversational Postulate | Milton Model | NLP is Fun

A Conversational Postulate is a Language pattern that comes from the NLP Milton Model, and is used in Conversational Hypnosis as well as Ericksonian Hypnosis.

It is designed to help a Person to take action now while asking in an indirect way.
A question is Posed or Postulated (seemingly as a suggestion) That gets a Knee jerk order response.

Don't Worry this is going to be even easier than you Thought,  Remember learning NLP is Fun. 

In conversational Hypnosis:
Instead of saying quite clearly
Will you please go and fetch me the pickles

When using a Conversational Postulate You might instead say
Can you pass me the pickles ...

(You could say Yes or no but there is probably a great chance that you actually pick it up and hand it to me).
Let's do some more so you will get the hang of it.

Here are some you might find used in every day language:
Can you pass me that water ?
Will you get me one too ?
Are you going to swing by the house then,  if you do can you get my jacket from over there when you go ?
Do you have the time ?
Can you get the Door ?
Will you get that ?
Is there enough for me?

All of these questions could be answered Yes or No and even so they have provoked a response and the person who posed the questions is expecting the action to be taken.

In Hypnosis:
Will you relax now and quietly consider this is an easy exercise
Perhaps you are going to think of other ways in which you can use this pattern then
Will you sit in this chair and begin to relax now
Can you notice how your breath is slowing down
Can you allow your mind to wander as you begin to let go of your stress
Can you indicate from your unconscious mind perhaps with a signal, perhaps moving your finger ever so slightly, One way or another to signal you agree.
Are you noticing how easy it is once you let go of time consuming  and unhappy thoughts 
Will you go into a trance by going into an altered state of consciousness

In Hypnosis in order to find the answer there is a greater likelihood of the person doing an internal check and experiencing the suggestion.

If the person is nicely relaxed they will enjoy and experience your suggestion and maybe say yes in their mind too.
Certainly they will agree with your suggestion.

Also Persuasive in Business environments:
Want to pick out the one you prefer while I have some left?
I can bring your order to the conference to make your pick up easy, will two boxes do it?
That is a Powerful pitch, It would be amazing to have you host our meeting, can I count on you this Tuesday?
Want to pick up the one we spoke about and let me know how you get on with it?
Would you like me to change your order to one that makes perfect financial sense to you?
Are you still going to get the one you fell in love with earlier?

In Business settings it is still quite like Hypnosis although it is more frequently called Persuasion.
The structure is Rapport based and linked to an association that creates a Kinesthetic response.

Your Turn to practice and use them:
Do you understand how to use them and if so do you think you will be using them now ?
Are you finding yourself studying more now the pattern is simple?

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How to Elicit Desired States | NLP is Fun

When eliciting  any desired states you can follow this formula to make sure you have created a change that is lasting at the Deep Structure.

Lets Get Cracking this is going to be quite detailed so you may like to get into a quiet corner and take some notes with a pen and a piece of paper.
If you are ready we will get started.

1. Must be Stated in the Positive.
What exactly would you like ?
Where will this happen ?
Who will be around, too ?
When will this happen ?

2. Must be initiated and also Maintained Independently by the Person who wants the outcome.
Do you need additional resources?
Does this fit your complete ecology?
Are you congruent about this?
Do all of your parts agree?

3. Sensory Evidence is Essential to defining this outcome.
How will you know you have achieved this?
Use full V.A.K.O.G. Sensory experience see link for a detailed description on NLP Representation processing styles..
Visual = What will you see?
Auditory = What will you hear?
Kinesthetic = What will you Feel?
Olfactory = What will you smell?
Gustatory = What will you taste?
As you go along, so that you know you are on the right track and, When you have achieved your outcome.

4. Use Cartesian Coordinates 
See Link for a Detailed Explanation of NLP Cartesian Coordinates

5. Is there a benefit to having or even keeping the problem?
Do a full investigation of any secondary gain to doing the behavior.
Bonus questions:
How do you know the new Outcome is going to be worth it?
When where and with whom does NOT HAVING IT work for you ?

6. Investigate the Full Ecology of the end result
How will this effect:
Relationships
The whole system of how this person functions
Living situations
Finances
Loved ones
Expectations
Greater Goals and Values
Arrangements
Career
Etc ...

7. Will there be anything different about your life when you have the outcome ?
What exactly will be the Impact of this benefit
Go Meta into detail of the Impact of the Benefit and even the loss of the current situation

8. Are you fully congruent and ready to experience this outcome now? 
Yes
No

9. Future pace
 Use mental drills checking for V.A.K.O.G and spatial submodality cues and shifts.

10. Additional Bonus: 
If you want further clarity you can go through the whole process of 10 steps to congruent Goal achieving to help you get really clear with your desires and then treat yourself to learning more about Well formed outcomes  when you do this you will have secure the outcome that you really want, right up front.

The Questions to Elicit the Present State:
What is the Problem?
How do you know it is a Problem?
How do you do this behavior, How do you know how to have it?
How do you know when to have it, do the behavior ?
How do you know who you should have the problem with ?
How do you know where you should have the Problem?
What stops you from changing the problem ?

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All Sales Begin and end in your own Mind | NLP is Fun

Selling is a Mindset and it is something that any of us who want to achieve progress must do.
You can be selling:
An actual Product
A service
A piece of change as in change work
A persuasive argument
An Idea to a class, your child, Your partner, Your friend

But one thing is a constant.
It is not until you have
1. Identified your outcome in detail
2. Bought it yourself in full congruence
That you will be successful in achieving your outcome.
In other words, think of it like this.
All Sales Begin and end in how you program your own mind for your success.

With this being said, if you want "Yes Tickets" of any kind, in any form. You must become the master of your own mind.

Your unconscious processes are predicting your behavior and of course your results. NLP is about restructuring your unconscious processes to work on your behalf.

Program your mind then just as a Mind builder would. Be relentless in giving yourself the NLP advantage in resilience and Self mastery.

When you want to sell anything you must have already been well rehearsed in your NLP mental drills. This affects your unconscious processes as you have trained your mind to act in your favor.

This is why learning self hypnosis and NLP are so valuable. Yes it is true that you will be able to influence other people and more importantly you will be able to influence yourself into high gear and tenacious action first.

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