Embedded Commands:
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If I say to you directly "get yourself working on a plan" chances are I may meet resistance from your conscious mind which is wondering why did she say that, that's so rude and then the whole point is lost.
An Embedded Command will allow you to say what you want in an easy and elegant way as well as bypassing the Critical faculty (slipping past your conscious mind logic and reasoning).
The Critical Faculty is used to define Logic for yourself, compared to what you know to be true or realistic in your own personal Experience.
Bypasing the Critical Faculty:
Here is an example of Spiderman (who walks up a wall) and changes his clothes and then becomes a Superhero ... Logically your Critical Faculty will dispute the reality of this ... by sorting through your own experiences.
Sensory Overload - Submission to Hypnosis:
Luckily, Sensory overload is in position, just like in normal Hypnosis and eventually the Unconscious Mind takes over and the Conscious Mind (Logic Police) agree's to partake in the illusion for the sake of the overall enjoyment of the process.
Embedded Commands - One of the 5 Subcatagories of Milton Model's Indirect Elicitation Patterns
Embeded Commands are Indirect Elicitation Patterns of the Milton model, most often used for suggestion in Communication.
Where we will see this quite a bit is in Hypnosis, Persuasion and Influence and Language Patterns used to move a process forward such as Sales and Negotiations
Indirect Elicitation Patterns Also Consist of :
Embedded Commands - As I am descibing
Analogue Marking - Making gestures to Markout Verbal or Nonverbal suggestions
Embedded Question - Questions that are sandwiched in the middle of conversation
Negative Commands - preceeding conversation with a negative - when you want somebody to do it
Conversational Postulates - Yes or No answer questions that envoke other responses
Example of an embedded Command:
I will first say something like
And when you become more comfortable in your new house as you know you will you will find you get yourself working on a plan and then things will flow much more easily and suddenly you will begin to notice opportunities are all around you, wherever you choose.
So as you can see I have used language to sandwich some Commands into the sentence.
The reason being is, if I said
Become more comfortable in your new house
get yourself working on a plan
Notice Opportunities
I may have met with resistance from the operator
Often people do not enjoy being told what to do, so the sandwich soften's it all up so it is nice and goey and easily digested.
We will speak about this again as it becomes important when we talk more about the Milton Model
Remember this chunk was a small piece of Milton Model Language
More Specifically Indirect Elicitation Patterns
and we spoke of Embedded Comands.
Next time I will share more with you about:
The Other 4:
Analogue Marking - Making gestures to Markout Verbal or Nonverbal suggestions
Embedded Question - Questions that are sandwiched in the middle of conversation
Negative Commands - preceeding conversation with a negative - when you want somebody to do it
Conversational Postulates - Yes or No answer questions that envoke other responses
Have fun practicing and let me know how you are getting on.
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
The NLP Interviews - Michael Perez
There is an Air of Gratitude as people are focusing on Family and Thanksgiving for the holiday coming up this week.
Seems like a great time to reflect on some Oldies and Goodies.
This week I am featuring more Interviews from The NLP Interviews we have some of the most incredible NLP interviews on this site and have alist of others we are going to add in 2011.
Today I am featuring Michael Perez who many of you know as the Incredible Community Mentor for NLP Connections sometime ago.
Michael is a wealth of information on subjects like Neuro Science, Hypnosis and NLP, I am fortunate to share that I was mentored by Michael for more than a Year and his Input and creative style of Communicating made a Huge difference to how I experience the world and help others.
He is a mesmerizing person to talk to for hours if you have a curious mind such as mine, I have fond memories of walking in Islington (London UK) with Michael and listening to his Philosphies and Teaching.
I invite you to Watch, Learn and then later Connect with the Incredible Michael Perez if you Ever have a chance to either be Coached by, Mentored By or Taught by Michael Perez I Highly, Highly, Highly recommend it.
The NLP Interviews Michael Perez
Seems like a great time to reflect on some Oldies and Goodies.
This week I am featuring more Interviews from The NLP Interviews we have some of the most incredible NLP interviews on this site and have alist of others we are going to add in 2011.
Today I am featuring Michael Perez who many of you know as the Incredible Community Mentor for NLP Connections sometime ago.
Michael is a wealth of information on subjects like Neuro Science, Hypnosis and NLP, I am fortunate to share that I was mentored by Michael for more than a Year and his Input and creative style of Communicating made a Huge difference to how I experience the world and help others.
He is a mesmerizing person to talk to for hours if you have a curious mind such as mine, I have fond memories of walking in Islington (London UK) with Michael and listening to his Philosphies and Teaching.
I invite you to Watch, Learn and then later Connect with the Incredible Michael Perez if you Ever have a chance to either be Coached by, Mentored By or Taught by Michael Perez I Highly, Highly, Highly recommend it.
The NLP Interviews Michael Perez
Monday, November 22, 2010
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
NLP and Law Of Attraction Join Forces for Harmonious Effect
I would like to share my thoughts with you about Manifesting, and Attraction,Qualified enjoyable Clients, Friends, Money, Health, Business, Creativity and so on..
I know many of you have difficulty staying in a High Energetic Vibration, in order to Manifest Exactly what you Deserve for your Life and your Business.
It Really takes a Systemic Approach and initially quite a Bit of Discipline. It may help you to Remember though we ARE all conected and we ARE all one Energy Field.
When you consider this it makes perfect sense.
We are the Image and the Likeness of God. Which means Seperately and Collectively we/You have absolute unlimited potential.
We have heard this so much it somehow takes the juice out of it, because we havent yet been told exactly how to get past ourselves on the way to doing this.
Ok then Why isn't it working so Far ?
Well this is a Question I hear all over the place, and believe me when the movie "The Secret" came out, I bought it for everyone I knew that was working on their Personal Development, Are they all Wealthy and Healthy Now ?
Not so Much ..
Why do you think this is, well first of all nobody can MAKE anyone do anything, and if you have tried you can also feel the ripple of that same kind of energy come back in your life.
I am a Trainer of NLP (Neuro Linguistic programming) so because of this my mind is conditioned to think in Patterns, Codes and Strategies.
So what I learned about the Law of Attraction was learned through my own experience which I Reverse Engineered and then began to teach to other people who were focused on "THE Economy" which is not a real thing, it is not Tangible, it also is an installation in a persons Mind.
Just Like Manifestation, and with both thoughts Feelings are created, and the effects of each thought leads to an entirely different thinking process and ultimately Reality, which then creates your Lifestyle.
I could speak about this for hours because I live it, and use it in my own life All Day, Every day, it has become part of an unconscious thinking proces and indeed an "Alternate Reality". I am not saying it was Easy, it was not ! Because it challenges all previous mental teaching from birth.
There is so much more to say ..
If you would like to know from start to finish how it is done, please join me this weekend where I will be showing a select few Business People how to get into the flow of this lifestyle.
NLP I spoke about before helps to Challenge your Thinking processes and as well as that there are other several other componants.
Why Then is it that All NLP'ers are not Attracting like Mad,Again it is a discipline that Challenges your Beliefs Values and at some level your Identity so there are many reasons why not.
Here is the Link with the full Details. I look forward to meeting you in person.
http://bit.ly/5j8rM
I know many of you have difficulty staying in a High Energetic Vibration, in order to Manifest Exactly what you Deserve for your Life and your Business.
It Really takes a Systemic Approach and initially quite a Bit of Discipline. It may help you to Remember though we ARE all conected and we ARE all one Energy Field.
When you consider this it makes perfect sense.
We are the Image and the Likeness of God. Which means Seperately and Collectively we/You have absolute unlimited potential.
We have heard this so much it somehow takes the juice out of it, because we havent yet been told exactly how to get past ourselves on the way to doing this.
Ok then Why isn't it working so Far ?
Well this is a Question I hear all over the place, and believe me when the movie "The Secret" came out, I bought it for everyone I knew that was working on their Personal Development, Are they all Wealthy and Healthy Now ?
Not so Much ..
Why do you think this is, well first of all nobody can MAKE anyone do anything, and if you have tried you can also feel the ripple of that same kind of energy come back in your life.
I am a Trainer of NLP (Neuro Linguistic programming) so because of this my mind is conditioned to think in Patterns, Codes and Strategies.
So what I learned about the Law of Attraction was learned through my own experience which I Reverse Engineered and then began to teach to other people who were focused on "THE Economy" which is not a real thing, it is not Tangible, it also is an installation in a persons Mind.
Just Like Manifestation, and with both thoughts Feelings are created, and the effects of each thought leads to an entirely different thinking process and ultimately Reality, which then creates your Lifestyle.
I could speak about this for hours because I live it, and use it in my own life All Day, Every day, it has become part of an unconscious thinking proces and indeed an "Alternate Reality". I am not saying it was Easy, it was not ! Because it challenges all previous mental teaching from birth.
There is so much more to say ..
If you would like to know from start to finish how it is done, please join me this weekend where I will be showing a select few Business People how to get into the flow of this lifestyle.
NLP I spoke about before helps to Challenge your Thinking processes and as well as that there are other several other componants.
Why Then is it that All NLP'ers are not Attracting like Mad,Again it is a discipline that Challenges your Beliefs Values and at some level your Identity so there are many reasons why not.
Here is the Link with the full Details. I look forward to meeting you in person.
http://bit.ly/5j8rM
Friday, November 5, 2010
10 Simple Ways That NLP Can Change your Life
NLP is Powerful and Flexible Technology, here are just 10 ways that NLP can be used. NLP is used in hundreds of ways by Millions and Millions of people all over the World.
Remember NLP is for more Fun in your life, so keep it Fun interesting and creative when playing with it.
1) In All of your Relationships:
NLP is Great Technology you can use and learn to simply step out of your own wants and think of the person you are communicating with and what their "Map" or Priorities are.
This information is imperative, in any relationship, Personal and Business, Potential or Existing.
2) Interviewing other people:
NLP is designed to help you become an Effective communicator, and ask the Questions that make all the Difference, when getting to know somebody in the matter of Minutes.
3) Negotiation:
When winning in Negotiation NLP has an Arsenal of Techniques to help you stay focused on your outcome, while remaining Calm and collected learning how to think creatively.
4) Changing Bad Habits:
NLP helps a person when they are ready, and are motivated by the outcome to use a variety of Techniques to change lifetime habits that were becoming sickening. These processes are simple Quick and lasting.
5) Modeling other people:
To have a role model is not always a reality for some, with NLP we are able to begin to observe and integrate the habits and strategies of People who have excelled in the fields we want to Master, so we can get into that mindset and become successful ourselves.
6) Learning New things quickly:
NLP works fabulously in Learning and retention, NLP can help improve memory and Learning ability and style. this is important as some people have had difficulty learning well in the past, others use these techniques to teach others and others yet still learn to expand their Learning capacity more rapidly than others.
7) Creating a Strategy:
A strategy is like a recipe for success, it has a list of necessary steps in order to make a process work and it also has an order in which these steps should be listed. All Strategies are tested and updated to include improvements, (humans are not machines) one strategy may not fit all, and the least amount of steps the Better think 5 Steps or Less.
8) Becoming more creative:
It is easy to become more creative once you allow yourself to think outside of the box, the person with the most flexibility wins, even in a game of Chess. NLP teaches to become more flexible in your thinking approach so you can win at your endeavour even in the tough times.
9) To Feel Great no Matter what:
There are so many techniques to shift attention from what feels bad to what Feels Great and NLP is super fast and thorough in this Area, Richard Bandler says "Feeling Good for absolutely no reason at all" is a great state to be in. I must admit I agree wholeheartedly.
10) To believe in what you thought was impossible:
You will learn how to make things that seemed so far out of reach really accessible and many times this is the difference that makes all the Difference.
Learning NLP is an Advantage to your Life, and you always have it. Even if you have experienced an NLP Training before and you are not sure how to use NLP you always can begin again, whenever you like.
If you are ready to Learn NLP you can Email here we have a variety of NLP Courses available and even Coach NLP'ers to get a better understanding of NLP
Remember NLP is for more Fun in your life, so keep it Fun interesting and creative when playing with it.
1) In All of your Relationships:
NLP is Great Technology you can use and learn to simply step out of your own wants and think of the person you are communicating with and what their "Map" or Priorities are.
This information is imperative, in any relationship, Personal and Business, Potential or Existing.
2) Interviewing other people:
NLP is designed to help you become an Effective communicator, and ask the Questions that make all the Difference, when getting to know somebody in the matter of Minutes.
3) Negotiation:
When winning in Negotiation NLP has an Arsenal of Techniques to help you stay focused on your outcome, while remaining Calm and collected learning how to think creatively.
4) Changing Bad Habits:
NLP helps a person when they are ready, and are motivated by the outcome to use a variety of Techniques to change lifetime habits that were becoming sickening. These processes are simple Quick and lasting.
5) Modeling other people:
To have a role model is not always a reality for some, with NLP we are able to begin to observe and integrate the habits and strategies of People who have excelled in the fields we want to Master, so we can get into that mindset and become successful ourselves.
6) Learning New things quickly:
NLP works fabulously in Learning and retention, NLP can help improve memory and Learning ability and style. this is important as some people have had difficulty learning well in the past, others use these techniques to teach others and others yet still learn to expand their Learning capacity more rapidly than others.
7) Creating a Strategy:
A strategy is like a recipe for success, it has a list of necessary steps in order to make a process work and it also has an order in which these steps should be listed. All Strategies are tested and updated to include improvements, (humans are not machines) one strategy may not fit all, and the least amount of steps the Better think 5 Steps or Less.
8) Becoming more creative:
It is easy to become more creative once you allow yourself to think outside of the box, the person with the most flexibility wins, even in a game of Chess. NLP teaches to become more flexible in your thinking approach so you can win at your endeavour even in the tough times.
9) To Feel Great no Matter what:
There are so many techniques to shift attention from what feels bad to what Feels Great and NLP is super fast and thorough in this Area, Richard Bandler says "Feeling Good for absolutely no reason at all" is a great state to be in. I must admit I agree wholeheartedly.
10) To believe in what you thought was impossible:
You will learn how to make things that seemed so far out of reach really accessible and many times this is the difference that makes all the Difference.
Learning NLP is an Advantage to your Life, and you always have it. Even if you have experienced an NLP Training before and you are not sure how to use NLP you always can begin again, whenever you like.
If you are ready to Learn NLP you can Email here we have a variety of NLP Courses available and even Coach NLP'ers to get a better understanding of NLP
Thursday, November 4, 2010
NLP - Internal Representations | NLP is Fun
I often ask people to keep a track of what they are Putting into their minds, TV Shows,Movies and Pictures, all create lasting Impressions that influence our behaviours as do Radio Shows, The People you hang out with, your family, Loved ones etc.
Many Great Entrepreneurs that others like to Model have said "Birds of A Feather Flock together" and even, "If you want to know How financially successful you will be, take a look at the earnings of the people you spend the most time with.
So Definitely what we put in comes out, why is this so Important, well when one is attaining excellence an Excellent way to enhance and accelerate your experience is to make pictures of your desired outcome and engage :
Visual - What you will See
Auditory - What you will hear
Kinesthetic - How you will Feel when you succeed
Representations.
Doing mental Drills to rehearse what we will expect in the Long run, not only enhances our belief it also helps us begin the momentum necessary to make it happen, when we combine our efforts with the Energy of Spinning Feelings too inside our Core.
Any Law of Attraction Seekers understand that what you are feeling much of the time determines your life, your results and how you are perceived by others.
How you are feeling is Related to what you are thinking. Here is a Clip from a Training Video to learn allot more about how what Internal Representations are, and how we can Instantly affect our state by changing our Physiology and internal Representations.
So practice for yourself and make it a ritual to do this regularly to begin to layer your beliefs and move closer toward it.
If you like this NLP Blog then be sure to share it with more people who will benefit too.
There are over 200 more Empowering articles to enjoy and remember NLP is Fun so enjoy the whole experience.
Thanks for reading, Speak soon.
Many Great Entrepreneurs that others like to Model have said "Birds of A Feather Flock together" and even, "If you want to know How financially successful you will be, take a look at the earnings of the people you spend the most time with.
So Definitely what we put in comes out, why is this so Important, well when one is attaining excellence an Excellent way to enhance and accelerate your experience is to make pictures of your desired outcome and engage :
Visual - What you will See
Auditory - What you will hear
Kinesthetic - How you will Feel when you succeed
Representations.
Doing mental Drills to rehearse what we will expect in the Long run, not only enhances our belief it also helps us begin the momentum necessary to make it happen, when we combine our efforts with the Energy of Spinning Feelings too inside our Core.
Any Law of Attraction Seekers understand that what you are feeling much of the time determines your life, your results and how you are perceived by others.
How you are feeling is Related to what you are thinking. Here is a Clip from a Training Video to learn allot more about how what Internal Representations are, and how we can Instantly affect our state by changing our Physiology and internal Representations.
So practice for yourself and make it a ritual to do this regularly to begin to layer your beliefs and move closer toward it.
How serious are you about Training your mind for Peak conditioning and what are you doing regularly to improve ?
If you like this NLP Blog then be sure to share it with more people who will benefit too.
There are over 200 more Empowering articles to enjoy and remember NLP is Fun so enjoy the whole experience.
Thanks for reading, Speak soon.
Friday, October 29, 2010
Sexy NLP Takes Place in 19 Hours Gather your Wingman
Although we have this on the Calendar, I have updated the Listing on NLP is Fun in Las Vegas. To find out the Full details and RSVP please click the Link.
One Day Only RSVP's are limited, see you there.
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