NLP Meta Model Generalizations| Modal Operators of Necessity | Modal Operators of Possibility | NLP is Fun

The NLP Meta Model Generalizations| Modal Operators of Necessity| Modal Operators of possibility | NLP is Fun 

NLP | Neuro linguistic programming was created by Dr Richard Bandler and John Grinder. The Linguistic are of NLP  has a series of Language Patterns called The Meta Model which is extremely specific. The Meta Model Challenges the person who is speaking to clarify what exactly they mean whenever they communicate with ambiguity.

Universal Quantifier:
"He always walks so slow"
"It is the same routine every day" 
"All Fat people are happy" 
"He Never says I am pretty"
"There are no nice girls here"
"Everybody likes Elvis"
Generalized assumptions that limit choice and influence other people as if they are Rules.

Modal Operators of  Possibility/ Necessity:
"I Can't come right now"
"I Can come later"
"I Could come after I have finished the dishes"
"I Couldn't come before, because I was doing the dishes" 

Modal Operators of Necessity:
I must spring clean
I need to go to the shop
I Got to get my dry cleaning

What would happen if you didn't ?
What Wont happen if you don't ?
What wouldn't happen if you didn't ?
What won't happen if you do ?
See  this Informative Post about Cartesian Logic 

Presuppositions:

"Since you have got allot out of this, you may as well share it with somebody else"

"You will be far more empowered after learning these patterns"

"When you review them all in sequence they will make so much more sense"

"Because you like NLP stands to reason you will  love being a Practitioner of NLP"

"Since you love the way I simplified it you will probably want me as your Trainer"

"Now you realize I am such a thorough NLP Trainer you will probably take your NLP Master Practitioner with me too".

"Since you are going to do it anyway you may as well Book it Now"

"Being in the Entertainment capital of the world can only be considered a Plus while you are taking your NLP Practitioners Training with me"

"The Next stage of Training is knowing what you know about NLP and How to use it"

"Because these patterns are so easy to use you probably can think of ways you can use them even now".

"Now that you have enjoyed this post so much you may as well share it"

Another word for Presuppositions are Assumptions

When people use them, a way of challenging the real information is asking

"What has to be true for this to be true" ?

NLP Presuppositions can also be found in the Milton Model and they are extremely Persuasive. Co Creator of NLP Richard Bandler says, stack as many of them as possible, to bypass the critical faculty and Melt resistance.

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Having Trained with Both Richard Bandler and John Grinder.

NLP Meta Model Deletion - Distortion - Generalization - NLP Language Pattern

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How to Learn the NLP Meta Model.

When it comes to the NLP Meta Model it is super easy to learn. But some people feel intimidated and don't invest the time into owning it, so that you can become great at Recognizing it.
Think of the Meta Model in terms of Information Gathering.
To Understand the persons Model, you must listen intently to hear how they reveal their Meta Model Violations.

The Three Groups in The Meta Model are:
Deletion, Distortion and Generalization.

Now let's get specific.
To recognize language as well formed these conditions must be met.
1. Well Formed in English
2. Contain zero:

• Transformational deletions 
• Unexplored Deletions of any kind (All must be challenged) 
• The person is positioned back into the powerful advantage of all the choices available to them,
•  Beyond their previous expectations which were based on previous perceptions

In other words, because you say it as if it is true, does not necessarily make it true to me. I have the right to ask you a question about it, so that I can learn more about what you are communicating.

The speaker has a chance to revise their previous expectation, now that they know there is somebody who has another point of view.

Other Rules are:

3. Contain no Nominalizations in which a Process is turned into an event and or is made Final, without going challenged as the the available options.

4. Contains no words or Phrases without Referential Indices

5. Contain no verbs incompletely specified

6. Contain no unexplored presuppositions in the portion of the model that implies the person has no choice.

7. Contain no sentences which violate the semantic conditions of well formedness. 

These rules have been accumulated from The Structure of Magic Bandler and Grinder 1975

In order to become really good at using the Meta Model you must additionally become really good at how you connect with other people in terms of rapport.

If you respect the person you are speaking to, instead of judging or criticizing, you can get to a place of curious questioning.

The Meta Model works really well like this.

If you are not doing this you will find yourself arguing perhaps and that doesn't feel good for anyone.

Some people are super aggressive in using the Meta Model once they learn it, and become NLP Meta Monsters which are like NLP Mean Kids who are Language bully's.

They thrive of saying crazy things like "Aha I caught you Generalizing ....."

Anyway I know you operate from a place of congruent Win Win and it is you I wrote this information for. We have the power to empower with this knowledge and I really love doing so, hopefully you do too.

Next time I speak about the Meta Model I will split Deletions, Distortions and Generalizations into categories.

I hope you enjoyed this Mini Lesson and I look forward to your feedback.

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